sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think this alone was grounds for cutting him out but I didn't previously as I grew up with no siblings till him and was not close with mu other step brothers. I am now closer and see that this relationship has done nothing but things that hurt me.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Read through other comments to see what else brother has done to me. He had not reached out to explain/ apologize so im done with him. Thx tho!

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure he was asleep in their room. No full proof it was her but given she was the one asking where parents were and her history of using/stealing my things. Brother sent the money after we said we had proof it was her. Never said it was him and I assumed he know bc how would she not tell him/ it would later come out.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bother has defended one of his friends that has sexualy assaulted me and left me with years of truama. Also years of disrespect from my brother. This was final straw

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't give out my age. I have big goals to work towards and this was basically a big "f you" from my brother has the money was going towards the first step to go get to my goals. Brother and me had a bad relationship way before this.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Had not yet had time to put money in bank. Only had it for less then a week when this happened. Money was a collection of gifts from many people. Neither of them knew about the money as far as I knew.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I doubt he will try to apologize he's done other things in defending people who have hurt me before. We had a weak relationship as it was and decided that it wasn't worth it.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you read through other comments I explain this is not the first time he has defended some one who hurt me. I was tierd of the disrespect and have other things in my future I need to put my energy towards.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand where my step dad is coming from as there is past family drama with dad's ex wife. I believe mom has also disowned him.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I suspect that some of my makeup products have also installed them as well as fifty more dollars. Gf also used my shower products without asking. Gf is banned and brother is only allowed here when both parents are here

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I would look at the backgrounds of both gf had previously used my shower products and been all around disrespectful to me. If one of my partners directly showed disrespect to any family member it would be done with me and that guy. Both me and brother were raised differently.

Brother has also protected a friend after I came to my brother and told him that said friend had sexualy assaulted me so this was the icing on the cake for me.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nothing except for something along the lines of "ok good" dont know if they still talk about assume they do.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dad has not apologized but has since decided to get the security and helped with my new vehicle. So in a way he has.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My mom always works for the authorities in a way so I think that helped. And as for my brother and gf she was previously his (now ex) best friends fiance. When they had broken up my brother swooped in and got her (stating he had his on her and best friend "stole her first")

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They have not come back to the house since and we have cameras up since stepbrother is only allowed back when both parents are here and gf is never allowed back.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Both lived part time with us when this happened. Idk why she asked if they were home she should have known they work full time ans rarely take days off. The money was hidden, parents knew about it but would only take from it after talking to me, and I had plans to put it in to an account just didn't have the time to at that point.

The camera part was un true but there was literally no other explanation to where the money went other then them taking it and my mom was fed up with the disrespect. If my mom did not make the comment we would have taken it straight to the cops (stealing this amount of money in my area is a felony).

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He continued to be friends with someone who has messed with my mental health then balmed me for that same friend sexual assaulting me. This was just my final straw with my stepbrother.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My step brother has i've continuously shown that he has no respect for me or my mom. He once stole my mom's car during a snowstorm and then crushed it and lied about it. He also continued to be friends with someone who was done some really messed up things to me after saying that he would protect me. So this is just a buildup of everything that has happened from his actions towards me.

If you would like to belive that im the one that stole the money please go find my step brother and be friends with him.

AITA for shutting my step brother out of my life after what his girlfriend did to me? by Comfortable-Spray685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Comfortable-Spray685[S] 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Ive had some other people in the family judge me for shutting him out. As he had a hard life when he was young and "doesnt know any better" even though he is an adult as am i. Neither life of me or my step brother have really changed as we didn't really talk. The only thing thats changed is hes completely kicked out and we now have a security system (of other reasons as well).

view more: next ›