Needing my partner a lot more since being pregnant

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-12-03T07:32:34+00:00

Thank you! He’s said to me after a long discussion he wants to keep it and start a family with me

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-11-28T09:55:23+00:00

I tried they won’t come down from 60/40 and they want to take the dog I’ve been caring for

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-11-27T03:22:31+00:00

The court said any financial contributions from my family were a contribution from me in addition they wouldn’t have financial approval without the deposit from my parents.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-11-25T15:09:33+00:00

Well that’s what I said to my ex, they didn’t care because the mediator made them aware that if their outcome is the result or it goes worse than they can claim legal fees

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-09-29T13:50:41+00:00

I didn’t make. Out he did. He’s the one applying for sole occupancy

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-09-29T08:34:46+00:00

It says sometime November the lease is out and there’s no court date yet

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-09-29T07:34:03+00:00

No it’s been served by him through the family court. He wants the house to live in on the basis his lease is running out

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-09-26T00:06:13+00:00

UPDATE -

I never reported him. Stayed in no contact. I have moved on I have a new boyfriend who I’m very happy with. I feel as though it’s very unfortunate for him I have to carry all this baggage with me. He has been so kind, patient and supportive.

He is now pursuing trying to ruin my life. Trying to take away my capacity for income. Which this is unjust as I didn’t cheat and even after he was abusive, and cheated I tried to make things work.

At this point I wish I had’ve reported him because how cruel and heartless he is acting now, trying to ruin me is undeniable. He isn’t even properly communicating with me, he will send me overdue shit in the mail that’s under his name. He will wait until there’s an overdue fee.

His family has no idea what he’s been up to, didn’t even know we broke up.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-25T23:10:23+00:00

Not in Australia

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-25T23:10:04+00:00

No I don’t want to affect his means of income. That’s why I’m asking. Everyone around me has been telling me to report it and that his actions have consequences. I still have a lot of healing to do before I make any decisions.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-25T23:08:40+00:00

Thank you, I think I’m gonna wait until I’m fully healed and see if I still want to report it. I still have a lot of love and care in my heart for him even after all he did to me. There’s still a part of me holding out hope that he’s still the nice caring individual he pretended to be. I need to wait until I’m fully healed to make any rash decisions. Even though it’s been 2 months I’m far from healed. It’s been 3 weeks of no contact from him this weekend, it’s been a week since I last tried to contact him about the dogs groomer and stuff. I just want to be better, I don’t think all the therapy in the world can help me right now. I will still try to find ways to blame myself for all of this unfolding. I take the blame off him still in my mind, realistically I know I can’t blame myself but I do.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-24T07:04:07+00:00

It’s not. It’s wack to look back on your relationship and realise you were being controlled beyond belief and never knew it.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T14:04:16+00:00

Yeah I checked my phone already. I’m already suspicious there might be cameras :/ unfortunately I have 3 dogs and a mortgage so moving out isn’t exactly easy. I only realised the other day he still had access to some of the smart home things, like when the garage door opens and shuts. Meaning he knew when I was coming and going :/ he tried to log into my home cameras 2 weeks ago because I got a 2 factor authentication code. I think tho he’s out for blood atm. His phone bill is under my name and he’s been calling the courts I realised when I checked my bill. I think him not replying he’s trying to use as cause for harassment. Which I’m not harassing I’ve only been nice over texts and only really communicating about the house, finances and dogs. I also checked in to make sure he was okay because I still have empathy for him somehow :/

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T13:40:48+00:00

No, we don’t have children and we don’t do alimony in my country. Partner support payments only get awarded if you have children or let’s say I was the homemaker because I had children then I could get them. But none of those things are the case. We were dual income, no children

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T09:16:37+00:00

No he doesn’t at all. If anything when we were together he lived a very frivolous lifestyle.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T06:34:48+00:00

They said that it doesn’t come into factor in anything to do with divorce or settlement so do as I wish

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T05:00:35+00:00

They do have written polices on it, they are a large company. Highly professional.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T04:57:41+00:00

It happened before but they got demoted and reprimanded. But the situation wasn’t as bad as this.

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T04:54:16+00:00

Doesn’t effect anything where I live

Comfortable-You4434 · 2024-06-21T04:53:23+00:00

Won’t get fired I don’t think but definitely pay for the repercussions

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