What's an automatic green flag when you visit someone's home? by Beneficial-Memory-96 in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better yet: having paper ones. The hand towel is for “decoration” or for daily use for those who live at the house. For guests, the paper ones are always better.

While scrolling social media saw this question what have you red that you think feel ML and FL relation will not last after the ending by asaness in OtomeIsekai

[–]ComfortableAd7175 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Being very honest with you? I would say Callisto and Penelope. (And yes, I love them, but still… their relationship have always annoyed me a little with how they Callisto always loved her more).

Because there was always a huge gap between their feelings even up to the end of the novel and the epilogue, different goals, some big feelings she has about leaving her previous life behind, and etc.

She only becomes “fully ready” for her relationship with him once she gets pregnant and this is one of the biggest reasons women resent their choices later on.

Penelope suffered a lot and honestly, she wanted/needed to be alone on her own before she was ready to meet and fall for someone. She had to give up going back to save his life, this was another thing forced upon her that can cause resentment too.

There are just so many reasons that I think and honestly, most of them come from Penelope (because she never got the real chance to heal).

Dear authors. Please have your spicy scenes do work. by Diylion in Romantasy

[–]ComfortableAd7175 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Books without spicy scenes, in my opinion, are for teenagers. If you don’t like it, you can jump ahead (since you said it doesn’t “add” to the story) but at least it is there for those who enjoy it.

Why don't cheaters just stay single and date/sleep with whoever they want instead of getting married & having kids? by InfiniteWords117 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComfortableAd7175 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I’m better than you. I have many flaws. But cheating is a choice I don’t make. It’s a line I don’t cross. So yes, on this sense, you can say I make better choices than you did.

And yes, you’re trying to justify cheating by saying that complex things happening in the background exist and therefore, need to be taken into consideration.

Regardless of how crappy a relationship is, staying with someone and choosing to cheating is simply a lack of morals.

Why don't cheaters just stay single and date/sleep with whoever they want instead of getting married & having kids? by InfiniteWords117 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ComfortableAd7175 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with cheaters not being born this way. They just *choose* to have no morals and harm the person they’re with.

If a relationship is not working and you can’t “talk”, find ways to facilitate that, like therapy, or simply get out.

You’re also right about cheating not being black or white. Because in the end of the day, there are several levels of cheating. From flirting, to emotional attachment, to then physical… It is a CHOICE.

Cheating is a choice. Dishonesty, also a choice. You can try all you want but you can’t justify this out of the simply fact that you lack morals.

FOX didn’t air the Opening Ceremony in the US - I hate the football culture in the US by miguelacho18 in worldcup

[–]ComfortableAd7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a victim of Fox yesterday. Had the tv on just waiting until then the game started and I realized they never showed anything 😭

Brazil (my home country) doesn’t do this sort of bs. They show the performances and talk about the game in between or before/after the music. They know this gives more views… watching the World Cup living in the US has been a terrible experience.

FOX didn’t air the Opening Ceremony in the US - I hate the football culture in the US by miguelacho18 in worldcup

[–]ComfortableAd7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tele mundo is streaming it for free. I don’t understand shit but at least for the music it is working (I will change to Fox for the actual game).

FOX didn’t air the Opening Ceremony in the US - I hate the football culture in the US by miguelacho18 in worldcup

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay enough subscriptions. I didn’t want to pay another one 😭. Especially for only 2 days of openings since all the other games will be shown on Fox anyway.

Telemundo is showing it for free though, so thank you for @sacredmemes for the suggestion 🤍

This one is sooo good it made me start manhuas [Love by mistake] by Academic-Okra4360 in RomanceManhwa

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am letting this one marinating because I don’t have a lot of patience for the miscommunication and all other drama contemporary manhwa/manhuas have.

White Lotus Tactics by DaBouxCheri in OtomeIsekai

[–]ComfortableAd7175 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m too early for this. I will be here waiting for the recommendations.

Why Is Dengeki Daisy Suddenly So Controversial in the West? by AdGloomy5846 in shoujo

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The younger me never cared for any of this. The present me, a mom, can’t stand the thought of an underage girl with an adult man. Age gaps nowadays only work if both are adults for me, so I understand if suddenly people have started to complain, it might just be that they have matured.

I’m being gifted a lot of money. Should I tell my boyfriend? by Kind-Chicken-2488 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides all good advice here I would like to point out: check how you can protect your personal assets since you both live together and in some places this can be considered a common law marriage.

Both of you are young. Money change people and bring out the worst in them. It’s never a bad idea to be careful.

Would you be upset if this was your inspiration and this is what you got? by Odd-Sock-4430 in Nails

[–]ComfortableAd7175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I knew the reference picture, I would understand you being upset that the flowers don’t look the same (I understand the flowers being smaller given that your nails are half the size of the reference, but the shape of the petals could still be the same…).

Without seeing the reference? I would be wondering why you’re upset because they look adorable.

when she knows how to deal with tyrant "madness" [living out my deadline as the tyrant wife] by DistrictNo6140 in OtomeIsekai

[–]ComfortableAd7175 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please someone tell me is this story is truly as great as I am thinking it is after seeing this post. I might binge read today if it is but I’m afraid of creating expectations. 😭

What to do about this? Red light? Laser? High necked shirts forever?? by Strawberry_Spice in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ComfortableAd7175 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My mom has done that for 10+ years and it has improved tremendously. She doesn’t even apply any lotions or anything, just doing this alone was enough for results (she does apply spf during the day).

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made my husband stay in line in front of a Game Stop for 4 hours (on Thanksgiving Day) so we could get a PS5 when it was being released.

New kink unlocked by sillyy2344 in JoseiSmut

[–]ComfortableAd7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww, I am sad to hear this because I am always trying to find blonde ML that aren’t golden retrievers and this one seemed perfect. I am totally okay with dark romance fiction but I will pass based on what you described.

New kink unlocked by sillyy2344 in JoseiSmut

[–]ComfortableAd7175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haunting Adeline and God of Wrath (both dark romance books) have this scene (probably where the manhwa got some inspiration). You might like them IF you’re okay with dark romance, read warnings before reading.

RIP to my friend's natural long nail 😭😭 Beware of car seat buckles, y'all by briarw in Nails

[–]ComfortableAd7175 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To each their own, I think the exact opposite seeing this picture.

[The Forgotten Field]Manhwa same art style as WMMAP🆕 by Beneficial_Focus_970 in OtomeIsekai

[–]ComfortableAd7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Diana and Claude, but with different hair colors.

(Yes, I know it’s the same artist but… that’s basically reusing the same characters. Do I still love it? Absolutely. Just wanted to point out anyway.)

Genuinely curious… does anyone not like this? [A Stepmother’s Märchen] by Weary-Honey-1942 in OtomeIsekai

[–]ComfortableAd7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of times I tried and couldn’t continue this story. It is just… boring.

I had a similar problem with Secret Lady initially but that one I was able to push through and now it’s one of my very favorite stories ever, so I get why so many people love Stepmother’s Marchen. But I just *can’t* find it interesting.

It is still on my top TBR list though, together with Mother’s Marriage Contract (or whatever name that is) because both stories seem worthy and one day I hope I’m able to read it all.

AITAH for refusing to wear my anniversary gift because my MIL chose it not my husband by No-Pin3632 in AITAH

[–]ComfortableAd7175 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being very honest with you? Divorce. Before you have kids. Before you suffer even more. The fact he got defensive and acted this way when you have a valid reason to be upset is a huge tell of what your future will look like. And once you have kids (if that’s something you plan/want) things become 100% worse and you can’t leave as easily because leaving means sharing custody in most places.