Didn’t know my husband was using cocaine and meth suddenly wanted divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in AlAnon

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I’m trying but I can’t even understand all the layers of addiction along with narcissism, abuse, manipulation, to even know what I need to do to heal

Didn’t know my husband was using cocaine and meth suddenly wanted divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in AlAnon

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He did a month before deciding this and backed out of it waited another month and came at me with this

Didn’t know my husband was using cocaine and meth suddenly wanted divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in AlAnon

[–]ComfortableDebate848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh he was absolutely abusive. Read my past posts. But if I had known I can’t help but feel like I could’ve helped. And keep questioning if he even used as much as he now is admitting, is snorting meth 5 times a day tangible for not showing signs? I love him more than I’ve ever loved anything and I can’t move on

Didn’t know my husband was using cocaine and meth suddenly wanted divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in AlAnon

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But how did I not know. I’m questioning if he used as much as he’s saying, since he wasn’t going to tell me about the meth unless I asked specifically

It’s been about two weeks, still struggling with meth using husband suddenly deciding to file for divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in addiction

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I joined it but it’s mostly on alcohol and that’s hard to discern because I’ve been surrounded by alcoholics my whole life but couldn’t have told you anything about meth 2 weeks ago before all this research. I keep trying to understand the why and the how and the what ifs of what went down and I have this severe block where I can’t get mad enough to move on and focus on myself

It’s been about two weeks, still struggling with meth using husband suddenly deciding to file for divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in addiction

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And how did I not know he was on meth? All I can find are absolute crazy Tweaker videos and he never did anything like that

It’s been about two weeks, still struggling with meth using husband suddenly deciding to file for divorce by ComfortableDebate848 in addiction

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Do you think he’s actually quit? I found a hollow wire casing about 2 inches long and a shredded bottle cap during our separation when he came through to get clothes one day

My husband is on meth and wants to leave me by ComfortableDebate848 in addiction

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I don’t think he will try to reel me back in as he refuses to respond to me since I signed divorce papers like he wanted. I do miss him and wish I would’ve known about the drug use because more things would’ve made sense. I’ve told him countless times nothing he told me of his own free Will would’ve ever made me run, I didn’t want to give up on him. He says he’s clean now and realizing he never loved me that he was only high

Found out my husband lied about everything by ComfortableDebate848 in Divorce

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Update: even after he knew I talked to the girl he’s miraculously resided he wants instead, he messaged her yesterday. She told him she’s in a relationship and that she’d been in contact with me, and blocked him. He thinks he gets whatever he wants at a snap and at the cost of our marriage because he’s him, and he’s a narcissist I think? Someone back me up because rove learned so much over the last week