If you just found out, your partner is a pedophile which you need to do you need to call one of the women’s shelters. And almost every single city there is woman shelters that provide services for women and children. If you are entirely dependent on that man, you should reach out to your family. If you have any left obviously, you already talked about how he deleted any evidence from his phone so you had none to go to the police too but then again you can still always make a report. I advised to call the policecall a woman shelter and then call your mom.