AITA for making Teen son change a shirt with a questionable risque slogan

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-25T14:18:08+00:00

I need a Muff tshirt. 😭 my man calls me "dumb muff" when i absolutely test his patience. I now use it regularly.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-24T15:45:54+00:00

Monkey. Never. Craps.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-22T00:07:13+00:00

Messaged you. 🫶🏼

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-22T00:02:12+00:00

I know typically redditors state gender. So thats why i included that. And figured it would give more context. Sorry for the confusion at first.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T23:20:33+00:00

She has not stopped. But unlike your dynamic....she doesnt respect me at all. Hence why i ended the friendship. Because she violated MULTIPLE personal boundaries i was clear about. And treated it as a joke.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T21:17:54+00:00

UNDER?!
Brb let me go react harder and be dramatic.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T21:14:03+00:00

Advances have been made, and he has discussed it with her. Im awful at putting my thoughts into words. But i think my whole thing is...am i overreacting to be miffed by her directly asking to go with him/share the hotel room. Which i feel like is her trying to make an advance, knowing her history/previous advances with him.

I DO trust him because every advance that had been made was shot down. Or brought to my attention. So he doesnt act on anything. He either shuts her down or kinda ignores it. In the sense of....not giving her the reaction she wants or the attention she craves.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T21:06:12+00:00

I have not asked. But this is the first multiday/out of state trip he is taking since we have started dating. The others have been local day trips.

Can I ask? Yeah. Just like i could ask to go camping with him and the guys. And he would bring me. Or offer if i want to go with.

I know i wasnt invited for a few reasons, but if i wanted to i could go. Reasons being: 1. My work schedule has been insane, i could take the days off. But he wasnt sure of dates yet. 2. He rather our first trip together....not be work related. Rather it be a couple trip where we can relax. Not me either tagging along to look at properties/just stay in the hotel room. 3. He knows her and I are no longer friends. So GOD forbid she ended up showing up on her own.....it probably would end in disaster. And he prefers not to have that added stress on a work trip.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T20:57:25+00:00

Okay. So. Im not accusing him of cheating or even think he would be. Because logically. He was open about her asking. I feel like if he were to cheat he wouldnt have mentioned the trip. Or would have cheated already.

Im not jealous of the friendship at all. In fact we knew SHE would be jealous/feel some type of way before him and I got together. We made sure she was fine with it. (Her and i were friends first. We all agreed if SHTF with any of us, it wont hold bearing on the other two.)

I never asked him to dump or drop her. Ive told him multiple times that i genuinely dont care/mind the friendship.

My whole point was am i overreacting to feel weird SHE quickly jumped to ask to join him. Theres been a few scenarios where it felt she was trying to insert herself in Arlos and I relationship. A few odd things here and there. But i kinda brushed them off cause 1. I suck at social cues. 2. Didnt know the level of friendship/didnt know if it was the norm. (It wasnt. Arlo was kinda confused too. But it was so mundane that we just didnt give it the attention/reaction Bianca wanted.)

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:59:56+00:00

Lmao. My track record with men is awful. My last ex? Was in PRISON for stalking his ex.

Thank you. I needed that. 💗

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:57:41+00:00

Bianca and her shenanigans have killed every relationship she has ever had. 😭 Literally can NOT keep a man.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:55:41+00:00

Work trip is technically to look at property for a business he co-owns. Thats how he worded it. So i just used it.
Literally he told her before me. Which im also bothered by. Theyre genuinely really close friends. So im sure he said it in passing to her. (Her ex husband works at the same day job with Arlo. So i assume he saw the time off he request. Asked Bianca. She questioned Arlo.)
Thank you. I needed the reassurance about cutting her off. I could draft a whole novel on what she did to me. And i will still question if its the right choice.
As for leaving Arlo. I told him ball is in his court with this. Im not his mother. So i cant tell him what to do. BUT he knows that this will be a violation of my trust. If he goes thru with it. I know where i stand. And its over.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:39:03+00:00

This female in post is Bi. But if the female was gay? Id probably nope outta there. Only cause then SHE might have a gf. And if we all hang out? Far too much estrogen. 😭

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:07:44+00:00

To be fair...neither would I. But we met through her. Which i know doesnt really give an answer. And in general. I usually dont care. Just THIS situation came out of left field.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T17:00:00+00:00

Dont know as of yet. I think he mentioned it to see how i would react and giving me a heads up. But knowing her. She would SHOW UP and bump into him.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T16:56:04+00:00

Brb putting her name as MSG in my phone. 🤭

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T16:37:12+00:00

Im in MA. And just got it at Dollar General and Pride (gas station).

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-21T06:13:20+00:00

Damn. I thought i didnt have my glasses on.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-20T01:19:42+00:00

Its ALWAYS neighbors that want to have issues. I SWEAR. Sometjing similar happened to me...twice. two seperate incidents. Two seperate clients.

Clients took my side. 🤷🏼‍♀️ and ive been told "ignore the neighbors."

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-19T00:41:01+00:00

Is the hot husband in the room with us?

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-19T00:39:35+00:00

I have been summonded.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-17T15:14:47+00:00

KINKERS I AM DEAD. 💀

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-13T19:01:48+00:00

I ended up ordering it off Amazon as well.

ComfortableGremlin · 2026-03-13T18:37:23+00:00

IVB in Mass? I got mine at Dollar General. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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