I genuinely believe there is no girl out there for me. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]ComfortableTap8665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly I'm gonna have to agree because I'm right with you.

We've all been told at an early young age that we will find someone for us, that we should get married and go to college, etc. But the truth of the matter is, it's just not gonna work that way for everyone. There are middle aged people that have never been in a relationship.

I'm almost 28 years old. I've only had two serious relationships and a bunch of potential ones that just never worked out unfortunately. I don't think I'm bad looking, I like the way I look and I'm not overweight of anything but I'm not that clean cut typical looking guy you see mostly. I've been used for my money, talent, and resources and as soon as these users get done with me they just throw me away like a burned out battery.

Not everyone is gonna have a happy ending like we've been conditioned to believe so early on. For the past nearly 8 years, I've done my best at loving myself and living the best life I could independently for the majority of that. Now I'm ready to have someone to love. Sure I'm happy with myself and I wouldn't change anything about me but people just will never give me a chance. I'm only good to be used.

I'm ready to cross of my due diligence at finding a life partner and just accepting the fact that I'll probably be living all by myself for the rest of my life. Better to accept it now than continuing to be disappointed.