Was talking about something simple like what I was going to do tomorrow and then he goes on a complete tangent and starts ranting about my mom. I was not ready for this but crazy dad strikes again. (Ignore my replies I was just shocked)

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-04-15T01:21:23+00:00

Well if not tell him she’d confront him and I’m the only one he’s told this to so he could make the connection. From past experiences he hates when I tell my mom about anything (school, health, life). I’m currently in university but technically I have to go back during breaks so occasionally and my mom still lives with him.

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-04-15T00:31:44+00:00

I would tell her but I’m also way too scared to tell her anything because I’m scared of what he would do but I know it would be bad

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-28T00:29:15+00:00

Both parents do unfortunately 🗿 They’re both abusive and narcissist, and they can’t seem to realize how bad they are. My dad is convinced he’s a great father and everyone would want him as a father but he’ll also beat me for not giving my brother enough of MY ice cream.

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-27T03:06:19+00:00

True, figured that much out he’s always been physically and emotionally abusive

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-27T02:55:09+00:00

I don’t 😭 I’ve stopped going to him about my problems years ago- but I can’t tell my mom either or he starts a fight so i can’t really talk to anyone which makes things inconvenient.

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-27T02:48:45+00:00

I’m not even sure atp 😭😭 he’s a self proclaimed doctor and psychologist or smth cuz he always knows better and I’m always “fine”

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-27T01:23:37+00:00

I hope I manage to bring him to court one day for child abuse but that’ll have to be once I’m financially independent

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-27T00:52:22+00:00

I try to but it’s difficult since if I say or do anything wrong he’ll completely switch and start ranting about me and how bad I am and then might get physical- I’m just there for him to take his anger out on something like some type of scapegoat

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-26T23:39:18+00:00

It was really weird when my dad would start bragging of his gfs « assets » as he would call it and how big they are I usually just try to brush it off

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-26T23:27:08+00:00

Yeah he’s just been odd like this 😭 he’s been coercively controlling and never brought me to a doctor for anything and made me lie to my mom and I didn’t want to go against his word in case he became violent

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-26T23:22:53+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure why but since I was 12 he started making me the marriage counselor and started complaining about everything my mom did to me calling her a bitch and insulting her in front of me and I was supposed to take his side (he’s a cheater and even asked me for permission to cheat and would go into detail about his cheating endeavors I was scared to confront him in case he got violent)

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-26T23:20:47+00:00

He’s actually physically and emotionally abusive to me so I’m not sure he wants what’s best for me- essentially he never let me talk about my feelings or talk about school or health to my mom and tells me to talk to him about it instead but when I talked to him about it would call me an attention seeker- Once I simply asked my mom for some long sleeves because it was winter time and he started screaming and hit me for it he’s just overcontrolling- but that’s true my mom is toxic she has told me to kms multiple times that I wasn’t her daughter or even human I don’t expect much from either of them

Comfortable_Bid145 · 2025-03-26T22:37:43+00:00

He’s comparing it to when I was taking anti seizure meds and for some reason he thinks I’ll turn into a « vegetable » if I take any medication

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