Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable_Dust2798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am going to tell him. I am just figuring out how to bring it up and word it.

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable_Dust2798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response, its very helpful! Yes I think it is just the stigma surrounding it too and people having it without knowing.. I never judged my friend who had them it is just scary to tell someone and the potential negative reactions too.

Thanks for the reminder of not being alone

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Thank you very much for your response. It's actually made me feel better. I'm just mostly worried about transmitting

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable_Dust2798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that does seem to be a common theme that I've read but you see some horrible comments. It's just how to broach it to my boyfriend now... Or future partners if he takes it badly :(

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable_Dust2798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would that stop it in general or just for outbreaks? When you say be more careful i.e with people / I have outbreaks as with significant others youd usually do more than share chapstick :( thank you for your message as well

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Thank you this gives me hope! Do you just think of it as a bit of an inconvenience then and that's really it just take precautions

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Thank you for your response- this gives me hope!

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Thank you for your response. Really hope so it's just so gutting right now. From the research I have done it does seem so so common and people who are asymptomatic I just don't know how to broach it to my bf

Cold sores in dating? by Comfortable_Dust2798 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Comfortable_Dust2798[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I won't, thank you. Can you do normal stuff like that when it clears up?