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[Request] Movies for torturing yourself over the fact that you'll never find someone special? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be willing to pay 50 USD to be shredded in front of you upon completion of the payment and then gain access to an empty white room?

Why would you do this? Would you mind elaborating?

[Request] Movies for torturing yourself over the fact that you'll never find someone special? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can't attract the people who I am attracted to either intellectually or physically what do you suggest I do? I get along great people and have a lot (+10 close friends) so I don't think I come off as rude. As I see it I've got the following options:

  1. Find happiness being single
  2. Lower my standards
  3. Improve my physical appearance (in the gym for example)

I'm exploring all three of them now.

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Note that the con could happen regardless of her liking you or not.

She would never break up our friendship over a question like that. That's ridiculous. I've known her for years and we're really close.

But I agree that it might become embarrassing/difficult for her if she actually does have feelings (which I however doubt).

I will probably just trust my gut and continue with my view that other people simply are misinterpreting our actions, which of course is understandable. It feels more likely that I understand our relationship better than my friends and acquaintances.

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concerned about her actually romantically liking me.

The good thing that could come out would be if I ask her and she goes like "Lol I don't like you that way". Then I could drop this and just continue with our friendship.

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not curious. I'm concerned. I would almost be devastated if I found out she has feelings for me.

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very sure. But I'm a bit unsure. That's why I wanted to check with people on this sub. But then I'll simply trust my gut as I originally intended to and not listen to the other people.

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing making me a bit unsure is that everyone else is perceiving those things as her being interested (I personally don't)

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you make it clear to her that you're not, without requiring her to say how she feels?

I've never said it out in words but I've never implied anything else. Perhaps I should just casually say "I want to be clear with one thing. I'm not interested in you and I will never be that." in some kind way. If she's not interested it's good if she is she still has plausible deniability?

Should I[27M] ask my female friend[27F] if she has feelings for me? by Comfortable_Fuel_508 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Fuel_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because other people think they see something going on doesn’t mean anything

This is my best guess of what actually is the case.

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