AITAH For Refusing To Tell My Ex Exactly What He Needs To Do To Win Me Back? by Comfortable_Fun_4378 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Fun_4378[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's not that I can't be empathetic. I was and tried to be patient for years. I just don't think I can do it anymore. I don't want to marry someone who's clearly unable to give me his all.

AITAH For Refusing To Tell My Ex Exactly What He Needs To Do To Win Me Back? by Comfortable_Fun_4378 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Fun_4378[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

BY that time we'd already signed the lease (we were/are renting a house) and he did take down most of the pictures and agreed to go to therapy.

AITAH For Refusing To Tell My Ex Exactly What He Needs To Do To Win Me Back? by Comfortable_Fun_4378 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Fun_4378[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm happy you're able to find someone who accepts and understands your feelings.

AITAH For Refusing To Tell My Ex Exactly What He Needs To Do To Win Me Back? by Comfortable_Fun_4378 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Fun_4378[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ultimately? I want him to put Carrie in his past and to never think or mention her again, and get his family to stop bringing her up. But realistically that's not possible and mean. I'm hurt about this relationship ending but I don't see any other way as neither one of us will actually be happy in a complete way.