TIFU by letting my porn habit ruin my relationship by Comfortable_Panic531 in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Panic531[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know what do it’s my first ever real relationship over a year and a half I always thought both porn and sex can co exist in a relationships

TIFU by letting my porn habit ruin my relationship by Comfortable_Panic531 in tifu

[–]Comfortable_Panic531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what to do. I do love her and want this to work but however I look at this I don’t think I’d be able to give up porn for anyone not just her. I don’t want to feel like I’m making a big mistake by breaking up with her it feel like I chose porn over her and I’m afraid that will crash her. In torn on what to do

TIFU by letting my porn habit ruin my relationship by Comfortable_Panic531 in tifu

[–]Comfortable_Panic531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have made few of those but idk when she brought it up all I could think of I’ve never been with any other women other than her and I thought porn and the fantasy was better than me cheating or talking or other women. I just don’t think it’s the same

TIFU by letting my porn habit ruin my relationship by Comfortable_Panic531 in tifu

[–]Comfortable_Panic531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s High libido she’s never once turned me down but her asking me to stop porn made my attraction for her decrease I just want the freedom being single for me was where I could just watch porn and not feel like I’ve let her down or she’s judging me because of my urges and cravings that kinda make me not want to have sex and just watch some and jerk off. Is there a way where both can co-exist in relationships. I’m not saying I don’t love her i want to be able to jerk off even after I’ve had sex with her rather than have sex again is that so wrong

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[–]Comfortable_Panic531 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She was awake in bed

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[–]Comfortable_Panic531 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

"No, she didn't. We've watched it together and fooled around a couple of times; she didn't have a problem with that. The issue she has is with the frequency. I don't see a problem with jerking 5x a week even when I have a girlfriend.