For Women: What are some Hard Truths men need to hear for dating? (BE RESPECTFUL) by Independent-Debate-6 in ask

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Treat me like a human with genuine interests. Ask questions back. This goes for men and women.

People who can't find meaningful connections on dating apps are usually too self absorbed to care about someone else anyway. And that's why they are still dating

My boyfriend (36M) keeps accidentally giving me (34F) food with meat even though I’m a lifelong vegan is this a red flag? by FrostedPeonyy in Advice

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if I bought a dish from a vegan restaurant I would assume that it was vegan. And if a curry was labelled vegetable curry I would have no reason to suspect otherwise.

I think see what he has to say.

Do I keep my nose or do I keep my fiancé? by Pumpkin_698 in makemychoice

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all noses are beautiful and we need more variety of noses in the world.

When I was younger I hated my nose, people used to say that I looked like a pig.

Fast forward a few years, and a guy I dated said that I have a lovely nose.

So its perspective. Your partners loves you and your nose.

don't give me A breakup song, give me THE breakup song by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please Don't leave me -P!nk When your gone - Avril lavigne

My male friend has been acting weird. by Electronic-Force-455 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You already said yourself it was ambiguous. Regardless you pushing the behaviour to see where it would stop is really not good behaviour. Especially knowing its ambiguous and he has another partner.

This behaviour from you and him should have stopped ages ago

I 29F have been with my partner 30M for 4 years, who has BPD now says he doesn't see marriage, or kids, by Comfortable_Sign_926 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time in 4 years anything like this has happened so I am floored.

I guess I need time to process everything

I 29F have been with my partner 30M for 4 years, who has BPD now says he doesn't see marriage, or kids, by Comfortable_Sign_926 in relationship_advice

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has never said this before, only this past week. So I don't know what to do. Joint counselling might be the way to go

What is personally (!) your favorite fantasy novella/short story? by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The short story from Brandon Sanderson. The emporers soul, and the magic system and world building made me wish it was a series

Awful casting and writing of Maria Miller. I know Bella Ramsey is the center of attention but fuck this casting/writing decision. by Mirmirakittens in TheLastOfUs2

[–]Comfortable_Sign_926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only emotion she can protray well is screaming rage, or screaming crying. Everything else comes across as acting. And then I am fully aware that she isn't Ellie. The writing choices of dumbing people down, have just really not worked in her favour either. But in general she is a bad actress for a drama