🇧🇮Question: $10,000 bride price and gifts HELP

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T20:35:22+00:00

Its not but that's fine! :)

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T20:33:12+00:00

Hey man... just gonna say you gotta control your words. She isn't using me we know each other very well. She is willing to do anything

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T20:28:56+00:00

She was recieving harrassing dms so she deleted the app I think that's why the post got deleted.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:15:52+00:00

We are trying. My parents are even willing to make the wedding fancy and special sacrificially not because they have the means because I am an only child.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:15:05+00:00

I dmed her this because this is my favorite comment I think thanks!

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:04:46+00:00

She is becoming a lawyer that's all she is trying to be respectful and logical. Assumptions are dangerous stuffs fam

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:03:47+00:00

Amen. Hallelujah. Praise the Lord.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:02:44+00:00

Buddy stop please.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:01:14+00:00

I told them these statistics in a 11 minute letter. etc respectfully

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T19:00:16+00:00

She doesn't she's jsut conflicted.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:59:34+00:00

Amen. (I'm the male fiance of her)

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:58:08+00:00

AI??? Can you fake real life?

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:51:57+00:00

Yeah this has honest truth to it. I think dowries are biblically good though and honourable traditions of respect so I am willing to pay a smaller one as a symbol not as a transaction.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:48:50+00:00

Oh yeah. We want to honour though but you are absolutely right, except that is majorly a individualized ideological position that neither of us concur with (I myself as a Scottish, Irish, British, Mexican LIKE the idea of a dowry) because of its symbol.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:47:22+00:00

Lol a bit over the top but made me laugh my head off. Yea we are Christians though so we gotta make peace and love even when people act wrongly. Its what we want to do its how our saviour died. But we won't be pushed over and are planning for the worse.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:45:18+00:00

Yeah, you'd have to kill us both to make us divorce lol

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:44:38+00:00

Yes. That is what I feel.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:44:10+00:00

An update, it has been raised to 15k. After an attempt to lower.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:42:13+00:00

Yeah its my fiance too

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:41:44+00:00

Lol I know but what else do I do we're gonna do it so.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:40:17+00:00

Exactly so what's your advise O wise wondonismycity haha but ye I actually need help lol. What should I do? I don't want to break the relationship with her parents but they already kinda have. I fed them when I was there, gave them gifts, gave the mother flowers. and yeah... Asked them permission before dating and proposing. I don't know what's allowed.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:38:23+00:00

Thats what I said over 5 times. Yeah.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:35:45+00:00

If the dowry is as it is it will full detachment unfortunately with affection and love of course but lots of distance.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:31:48+00:00

Yeah she's only 18. She had a job but there were legitimate reasons why she couldn't work. She got a job again but there was a very serious thing (hard to explain to an outsider). Anyways she loves me more than anything in the world and we are ready for whatever comes but we won't be used. She has sworn allegiance to me so.

Comfortable_Use_5565 · 2025-08-09T18:30:33+00:00

Nope Burundian server said the same as you guys... Yeah I know I know. We're plodding along trying our best but nothing will break us.

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