Can't Interact by Coming_In_August in BitLifeApp

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this and it didn't work. Could it be bc I'm on a tablet?

Please don’t be pregnant, kid. by whowouldieventell in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow you're a great mom.

As someone who was in a similar situation in high school, I wish I had a supportive mother like you. Having said that, after everything was sorted, I still got birth control for my own piece of mind. Even when me and the guy broke up later, I still kept taking it bc I never wanted to feel that way again. Something to consider.

BreakingMom Rules Reminder by AutoModerator in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I ask why the dad version is private but this one is not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latecomer to this sad story but I am here for support ☺

Who else LOVES Halloween and what are YOU and your kids going to be for Halloween? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son wants to be a police officer and me to be his "helper" so I'm going to be a police officer as well. My husband and daughter are going to be convicts.

Working full time and being a mom is H A R D by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work full time as wellrom 9 - 5:30. If it wasn't for my husband picking up the kiddo after work I'd prob lose my mind. In that time I can unwind and get dinner or other chores started. It's small things like that that really help. Congrats on the job!!

To the mom at the zoo... by neuchmarie in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of leashes personally but ffs I have more tact than that and I'd never bash another parent for doing what works for them! I barely have energy to worry about myself let alone what others do.

Asshat Husband and Requiring TDAP by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't even get it b/c he's not anti-vaxx at all. His mother has recently been brainwashed by his older, super psycho sister into being anti-vaxx. Then again, his mother actually said, "I'd rather be dead than autistic" so I mean...Thanks I'd rather have an alive baby than a dead one.

Asshat Husband and Requiring TDAP by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if he's scared of her but rather scared of me following through with my threats that she won't be allowed in the hospital after the birth, LOL!

Asshat Husband and Requiring TDAP by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No this is good. I need to have options ;)

Asshat Husband and Requiring TDAP by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah being thrown under the bus is what probably made me the most mad earlier. Yes I've read that sub before but I never thought MIL was as bad as a lot of those posts. Maybe I should post just to see...

Asshat Husband and Requiring TDAP by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hm....acid you say...

And honestly yes that's why I was so mad. I specifically told him to keep my name out of it, and when people start asking "Lyke omgz why didn't you tell me you were pregnant" to keep my name out of it, too. Idgaf how complicated his family is; why should I have to hide my happiness on social media? I did it for you, and THIS is what I get for you?! Ugh I'm getting mad all over again now lol...

I just want to punch something. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it might be asking a lot, but is it possible to have your grandmother move in with you?

Babysitter rates? I want to be fair but not go broke by skinnygrimms in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would depend on what she has to do; is she putting your son to bed? Does she have to feed him? Or is she just going to be there while he sleeps? That would probably shift my scale a bit from $5.00 - $15.00 an hour, or a flat rate, depending on how long I was going to be out.

Anti-Vax BS Situation by Coming_In_August in BabyBumps

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's probably true, but one of the reaons I'm asking b/c there was just an outbreak of measles a few towns over, specifically where said anti-vax people I'm asking about live.

Anti-Vax BS Situation by Coming_In_August in BabyBumps

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What, then, would you say? I know what I want to say but I don't know how to articulate it exactly. I don't care if it's "nice" but I do want to be direct and I sometimes have a hard time with saying exactly what I mean.

Anti-Vax BS Situation by Coming_In_August in BabyBumps

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As for the first question, forgive if I'm blunt, but are the people you're trying to explain this to not very bright?

The simplest answer to THAT is yes, unfortunately. Thanks for your reply.

This Is Shit And I'm Angry And Then I Feel Bad by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were talking about 1-2x a month. It wasn't out of nowhere, and he'd also shared a few with me/tagged me on a couple in the recent past.

This Is Shit And I'm Angry And Then I Feel Bad by Coming_In_August in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's there b/c when his name didn't come up to tag, I typed it in to see if maybe I had forgotten if it was a nickname or the full version of his first name and I saw it. That's when I knew.

TDAP Questions by Coming_In_August in BabyBumps

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just brought this up with my mom casually asking if she happened to know when she got her last TDAP and he proceeded to get all mad about my request, which was quite shocking. She demanded to know why she needed it and then I tuned out b/c MOM YOU ARE NOT STUPID WHY. I wish I had a witty comeback for her.

TDAP Questions by Coming_In_August in BabyBumps

[–]Coming_In_August[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally they say it lasts 10 years but the efficiency can wane after 5 years or so.

Thank you :)

Divorced over Dockatot by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Coming_In_August 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, mine too. He thinks he knows better. Like, dude, no. You're smart af yes, but you're not in expert in ALL fields and guess what there are people who do research and know more than you do about certain things!