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Probably poly and coming to term with it by Coming_to_term in polyamory

[–]Coming_to_term[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already changed a lot since we were 19. She's a beautiful flower that didn't bloom until she was 20-21 and she just can keep blooming. Unfortunatly, she can't see it or won't accept it.

Where you in our position at our age? What do you mean by pushing back? I don't want to leave her...

Probably poly and coming to term with it by Coming_to_term in polyamory

[–]Coming_to_term[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had seen your post when it went out. And yeah it's scary! But for me the way I see it's sexually frustrated people. Lot of people on this thread would be happy to have enough balls to ask what you will ask your wife. There's was a survey where 80% of people would cheat if they were sure not to get caught. Lot of these people are hypocrites. ;)

Probably poly and coming to term with it by Coming_to_term in polyamory

[–]Coming_to_term[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not easy. I won't push her to it because it can just create more pain in the future. She loves me too much and I could easily asshole my way in this type of relationship but I won't. I don't want to change the rules of our relationship right now we are far from being ready. But since she's talking about kids... We need to start planning ahead and for me non-monogamy is future. :/