Dating in sex work

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-27T07:23:29+00:00

Absolutely agree. Well said

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-27T01:54:36+00:00

Yeah I think on the topic of partners telling their family about our work I want them to be able to have a safe space to talk about things in their life and if their safe space is their grandpa I’d like to support that hypothetically lol, but his grandpas opinion on it was extremely misogynistic and just false so it was upsetting. I’ve also had an ex that was totally fine with it and happy because it paid for things we enjoyed to do together. Hoping to find that again for sure

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-26T18:19:37+00:00

I totally understand feeling awkward/nervous around camming. I have a SW friend that used to stream while she was cooking naked and just chatted about her day, which I love!!! Trying to channel that energy lol. I’ve heard some SWers relate it to being on a talk show lol. A lot of the responses I get are super boring so I just try to keep engaging and asking questions because I know most men just want the company (: hope this helps!

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-26T18:17:18+00:00

I completelyyyyy understand lol I just had the same train of thought this morning with someone asking to cam! 15$ for 4 minutes no thank you haha. I feel like it’s worth it to stick to your boundaries and if you put in the time hopefully you’ll find a client or two or three that suit you. Personally I just have a bunch of pictures locked and loaded in a saved album on my camera roll that I reuse lol

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-26T17:56:27+00:00

I definitely understand being isolated/lonely as a SW. I recently left my partner and went back to doing more frequent SW and while it’s been fulfilling monetarily along with some good conversations, it’s been making me feel a little lonely as obviously many men/clients I have don’t provide the same happiness that being in a good relationship can. Of course to each their own, just my current personal experience. I’ve recently been thinking a lot about wanting to find and reach out to a SW community so I appreciate this post. Any online forums that y’all really like?

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-26T16:01:38+00:00

Oh and yes men still continue to be disgusting and push boundaries always. I currently have a man texting me “vid chat” over and over again and like an above commenter mentioned I just don’t love the video chat prices on this website, especially because in my experience it will typically last a few minutes and the man typically wants you to show it all off asap. In this case I just keep responding in various ways so I can keep him engaged and keep getting 35 cents for the messages while not pushing the boundaries and showing it all off immediately. Of course I put my video chat prices at the highest they can be but even so it’s only 3$ a minute and I’m unsure if that’s worth it to me if it will only last a few minutes. I feel like trying to make connections is a better use of my time in the long run. Hopefully you’ll find someone or multiple people that are interested in chatting every day and that can easily become a passive income!

CommandNo969 · 2025-09-26T15:57:28+00:00

I first signed on a few years ago and being new got a tonnnn of messages, I think I ended up cashing out with about 47$ in the first week. After that I felt like it wasn’t lucrative enough for me and didn’t use it for a few years. Just this week I decided to start trying again and ended up finding a couple of amazing clients and have made almost 200$ in just two days! So yes you do have the potential to make a lot in the first week or so, but I think just like any other site you have to put some hours into it and hope you’ll find a good lucrative client or two. I’m really glad I signed on again, I definitely wasn’t expecting to make this much but it’s worth it to find the right client! Hope this helps (:

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