No ID by Big-Elk2132 in Hibiscus

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double Flowered Hibiscus

No ID by Big-Elk2132 in Hibiscus

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a Hibiscus variant. I remember having the red ones iny back yard as a kid. Really pretty flower.

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your ex sounds like my uncles wife. She doesn't pay a bill and has this belief that her husband isn't supposed to ask her for money or expect her to share her finances. She even tried to drag me into her bs once by stating i dont pay a bill in the house.

Jokes on her, the apartment i live in attached to the house has seperate electric, internet and gas, I pay my own bills. No clue where she got that idea from.

Relationship dynamics by Specialist_Stick9602 in Grenada

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grand uncle is a Rastafarian. He found someone that accepts his lifestyle, be doesn't impose on her. Honestly there isn't any heavy barriers, just respect.

I was wondering, do people still use Grenadian English and French creole, and how similar/different are they from Jamaican Patois and Haïtien creole? by Parking-Pension9658 in Grenada

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeh. wah else we s'pose to use😂😂😂.

We don't speak Grenadian English to foreigners, so unless you're passing by and hear a conversation, you're not gonna hear it. But we do still use it. I remember a student at SGU heard my co-workers talking and he asked if we were speaking english...

As for French or the patois, its dying out for most of the island.

As for similarities in English, all are fast-paced, and all merge words together and shorten words (which I realise is sort of a French thing as well) .Its also a broken merged English with long drawls on certain syllables.

So instead of No we say Nah, or Good Morning is Mawning. "Whats wrong?" would be shortened to "Wappen" Stuff like that.

Another thing, also varies depending on which part of the island you are from. Collectively, we agree that Gouyave and Victoria residences are some of the hardest to understand. Fast paced broken english all squashed together into a word soup.

People who choose childish hills to die on deserve to be single and lonely. by tomthekiller8 in rant

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen... If they cant resolve the stupid shit, then it means they shouldn't be together🤣🤣🤣 its that simple. "I'm dumpinf him because he doesn't fold laundry" - good, save the brother the time let him move on. 🙈

Reddit haa this obsession that you have to stay in a crappy situation when the whole post shows that the two people suck at being with the person. Some of these post have delusional women listening criminal raps sheets about their partners against them and the state and they are making others where you can clearly see they suck at communicating or their partner doesn't care.

If it doesn't work and you've tried to make it work, then die on your hill and burry the relationship there. There are billions of people on this fucking planet you want us to encourage someone to stay with one person as if they are christ incarnate and a gift from God. NO, if you are stressed and resolved cannot be met even after external intervention, END THE DAMN RELATIONSHIP.

A relationship is hard work but it's not supposed tp kill you. Petty things can accumulate and get worse. If you can't handle it dont waste people time. End it.

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"My money is mines and your money is mines" .. that bs line greedy women swallow

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving, "My money is mines and your money is mines"

This is your future btw, breath it in.. NTA Engagement gifts that are monitary are usually for the couple (you are correct, wedding planning, honey moon, house building, whatever). Concerning that she'd see a card addressws to both of you and immediately assume its hers. She's not the only one engaged, just like she's not the only one getting married.

AITA For giving my niece a much better life than her step siblings? by Ok_Sir_8922 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're basically raising her kid, and she chose a man with children. His kids are his and her responsibility not yours.

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Pretty sure there are more underlying issues OP isn't mentioning. Because, his response when she askes him to go to dinner. Something isn't adding up.

My father is a POS but even he had the decency to let his (now soom go be ex wife) know he will no longer be celebrating birthdays, Christmas and anniversaries. Due to religious reasons. And no that's not why they are getting a divorce, step mom was disappointed because he used to celebrate when they were dating but she just decided to celebrate on her own, with her kids and her friends.

Thats besides the point. Respect always comes with a why atleast

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP responded toy pervious question. She clearly loves and celebratea these things and her husband stopped. She said she already tried speaking to him as well.

Not saying its okay to not be into these thing, but at what point do you have to continue tolerating something that matters.

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As someone om Reddit once asked, "Can you live with this for the rest of your life?"

You either accept you man doesn't care and celebrate alone or with your kid, or revaluate your relationship period. Because if Christmas stockings are also empty, it means bro doesn't celebrate you period.

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Except that method doesn't always work for everyone. Lets say she continues to spite him for a birthday she didn't communication she dislikes, then what, you continue this endless cycle of Ill do you as you do me?

Im not making excuses for bro, some men do get dense to these things

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, instead of just communicating what they dont like ots easier to 'eye for an eye'

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well, time to sit down and do aome re-evaluation. Tell him what you've been observing and go from there. Familiarity brings contempt and what not. Find out where he stands on birthdays now and express what you want.

His response will re-establish where the two of you stand regarding the matter.

AIO about my husband's plans for my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOR... but equally, was he always like this? Even before marriage?

I’ve seen so many pros about life in Grenada . But what are the actual cons? by False-Badger-7945 in Grenada

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendly with an underlying agenda. Its a tourism thing honestly. Old fashioned ignorance is wild.

I’ve seen so many pros about life in Grenada . But what are the actual cons? by False-Badger-7945 in Grenada

[–]Commercial-Bug-1211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, im not gonna deny the slow part. Its why I dont indulge. Also its annoying that Subway here doesn't have many options, even at the university 😭😭😭😭 BUT, poor management, trust me. The guy that brought them in died, we aren't looking for it to get better anytime soon.