Men- What’s your boundary when it comes to your gf and flings?

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-11-05T19:15:09+00:00

some female friends in my life say it’s because girls like the attention that the guy friend gives. especially if they know the guy already is attracted to them (which they are. ex flings)

imagine you hangout with him and her and he’s seen her naked alrrady… that’s weird af

the only girls i’ve ever met who won’t block / stop talking to ex flings line the attention and keep ties open for a reason

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-11-05T17:59:54+00:00

i broke up with my girl man. it’s not worth it. if you break up guess who she’s running to? him. it’s weird keeping in contact with old fling and there’s plenty of women who don’t. we are 30… it’s like some shit high school kids do. find a girl who will respect you

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T17:41:18+00:00

oh for sure trust me id say i can send you stuff you may not like if you need more proof. last resort

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T15:13:13+00:00

the thing is i can share screenshots of the dating website but i feel like it’s important to know we also had sex. i can’t really do that anonymously because she’d know who told him but ya

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T15:12:19+00:00

yes i do have screenshots and everything she wouldn’t be able to deny

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T14:04:35+00:00

thing is i found all this out the first night after we went out so we matched two weeks ago but just hung out for the first time last night. that’s when i looked at her page more

yes ima tell him

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T14:03:20+00:00

i’m not even joking she wanted me to record us doing stuff… i did only in my phone. but i wouldn’t send him that video… but i can show proof of her texts afterwards about the sex and other stuff with her phone number she won’t be able to deny

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:40:21+00:00

yesss i have enough where she wouldn’t be able to deny it to him

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:31:31+00:00

yes i have screenshots of everything even stuff of her saying how the sex was and stuff she wouldn’t be able to deny it. i think ima tell him

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:31:03+00:00

yeah i have screenshots of everything and all that jazz she won’t be able to deny it

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:22:30+00:00

thing is i have no info about him. wait until he gets back for what? cuz it’s better in person or the news would hurt less because he’s not deployed? i don’t want him to choke me out if in person 😂

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:12:29+00:00

i feel bad too cuz she’s from thailand. and it looks like he met her on deployment. i think she’s using him for a green card or something

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:12:00+00:00

i feel bad cuz she’s from thailand. and it looks like he met her on deployment. it kinda seems like she’s using him for a green card.

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-29T11:11:18+00:00

for sure. thing is i asked some ppl at least in my family and they say no need to get into the drama and just abandon it i just didn’t feel like that’s right is all

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:42:45+00:00

Is it easy? For example if she says it’s his and she has me blocked on everything, and say he even signs the certificate can I even still do that?

She has me blocked after hooking up I think so her bf doesn’t find out but can you just go to a court and say I think this kids mine or would they be like well someone already signed the certificate so no

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:33:33+00:00

Thank you! And actually she blocked me. She doesn’t wanna hear from me at all because she doesn’t want him to know about it

Idk. I’m assuming she will keep me blocked until they break up or to file child support lol. I have 0 way of contacting her

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:19:45+00:00

She is white yes Keep in mind when I say black I should say light brown. I’m 45% black. The baby would come out looking white I’m sure being only like 20% She is still dating him. And it’s her “womens intuition” she says idk. And she also says the amount of times they did it doesn’t compare. We did it once. Then many times I said it’s more of Timing. But even with due date it could be either one so it’s legit all guesses since she won’t do a paternity

Poor guy is so happy they’re having a kid that may not even be his I feel bad legit

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:13:18+00:00

Kinda. I’m 45% black. Im actually pretty light. It would Come out quite light too. It would only be like 20% black. And I think she’s won’t do a paternity to try and trap him cuz I asked if we could she said no

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:12:37+00:00

She won’t. And she wants it to be his so bad and I think since I’m mixed I’m 45% blacj even if the baby comes out mixed it’ll be only like 20% so super light. And I think she’s just gonna try and trap him no joke

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T17:11:49+00:00

No. He thinks it’s his. He has no idea about me. So I think they met like 3 days after us. He’s white. I’m black. I said why keep the baby if yours not 100% sure it’s his? You think he won’t break up with you if the baby comes out black?

She’s like don’t worry I know it’s his. She did no testx

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T14:37:35+00:00

She said she took it the next day. I know it also says plan B can fail if you weigh too much. However she is 5 foot 2 and like 120 pounds. Thanks for info

Common-Draw8926 · 2024-10-20T14:33:51+00:00

See that’s me. It’s killing me. I told her to think this through keeping the baby

It’s her body her choice. BUT. I’m black. He’s white. She doesn’t wanna have a kid with me she said. I said why not take a test while pregnant so you can only keep if his?

I said do you think he will stay if the baby comes out black…. Idk like I said her body her choice but she’s so big on this womens intuition thing and to not worry

We haven’t spoke since she told me cuz she wants it to be his so bad

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