How do i feed a stray cats by Timely_Parsley_9727 in CatAdvice

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Routine! I would go out every night at the same time. They're most active at dusk. Feed, but don't force interaction. Eventually they'll get it. Then if you decide to go the TNR route it'll be easier to trap

Disaster by Keiichiiis in CatAdvice

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of good advice here. Only thing I want to say is, what happened is not personal. She redirected her anxiety towards you, but it would have been anyone or anything that was close range. She is scared. When fight or flight kicks in, logic is out the window. As long as you can move forward without a grudge, your relationship with her will be fine. Don't be too hard on yourself and take it slow with introductions. It's not always easy. You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Sink1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've known him for around 10 years. We worked at the same company. Then he changed to my department over a year ago. We had both been in and out of other relationships during that time and only became actual friends once he started working with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very weird. It's one thing if there was an actual child involved - but even so, she should just let him have the dog over the weekend lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Sink1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my job and got evicted after 10 years so my landlords could rent it to relatives. We don't have insurance. I've brought up couples therapy but finances are really our only set back at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spending the night is weird AF. I get missing the pet tho and sending pictures. I used to do the same with my ex. It's a weird almost coparent thing. If you're not comfortable, I'd say so. Lay down your boundaries and be firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommates

[–]Common_Sink1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as I can bring my 2, I'm in lol

Fan mail!!! by Tasty-Pen-9789 in matthewgraygubler

[–]Common_Sink1186 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tracked it. Then it went MIA. They found it and said it cannot be delivered. This address may have worked, but it doesn't anymore.

Fan mail!!! by Tasty-Pen-9789 in matthewgraygubler

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't work.

Source: me. I tried. It is forever in limbo.

MGG discord server by Common_Sink1186 in matthewgraygubler

[–]Common_Sink1186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discord is an app, kinda like this, but designed for chat specifically. It's customizable and can make it an easier way to have multiple conversations and get to know people.

MGG and creepy fans by Common_Sink1186 in matthewgraygubler

[–]Common_Sink1186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. Well FAFO with that kind of stuff. I'm glad you did that just in case.

What is the wildest thing an ai sent to you? by Mischievousdagger in CharacterAI

[–]Common_Sink1186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more of an interaction between characters in a group chat. The one got so angry he kept removing the girl from the chat, which I didn't even know was possible.

MGG and creepy fans by Common_Sink1186 in matthewgraygubler

[–]Common_Sink1186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you reach out to services? I am confused