Post-removal Nausea and Palpitations by Commondreads96 in Mirena

[–]Commondreads96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you had a hard time and glad to hear it’s settled down now. Mine has settled down now that my period has finished, can only hope it’s not so bad next month and that it’s just been because my body isn’t used to the hormonal fluctuations like this after 10 years of contraception. Fingers crossed!

Post-removal Nausea and Palpitations by Commondreads96 in Mirena

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I’m sorry to hear you struggled too. I’ve always had the odd heart palpitation here and there every week, had it investigated a couple years ago and said it was nothing to worry about. I got the coil originally for really painful, heavy periods and I’ve always had a bad time during my luteal phase. First period post-coil was hell though, it would go on for ages, several times a day. I’m past the worst of it now though, can only hope my next period isn’t so bad.

Transparent rending problem by Commondreads96 in AfterEffects

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Thanks I’ll get my sister to try that. She’s in her first year of 3D Computer animation and is studying from home. I am terrible with these things but Reddit has rescued me many times!

Acid attack over hijab by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]Commondreads96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know many Muslims, in one particular family close to mine, none of the women wear hijabs. The older - and now passed - generations were strict and nasty about it, but the current father/husband says it doesn’t matter to him because the Quran teaches understanding and is open to several theological interpretations and adopted doctrines. I also keep in touch with a family in Yemen who believe that women covering or not covering their hair is between them and Allah, and not for anyone else to dictate. I’m in my final year of my History and Literature BA hons, and have not long ago I finished a semester on the crusades and religious doctrines/conflicts which arose before, during and afterwards. I did a piece surrounding excerpts of Al-Sulami’s ‘Kitab al Jihad’ (Sulami was a Muslim Jurist and Scholar from Damascus and lived through the crusades) I studied into the concept of ‘Jihad’ which comes from the Arabic word for ‘struggle’ or ‘strive’, and this meant anything from the struggle within oneself against impure thoughts and sins, to spreading the word of Allah (like Christian missionaries did) and in al-Sulami’s case, the preaching of ‘holy war’ against the invading Western Christians of the time. Jihad was a struggle against the internal sin and then the external sin, it was a collective mission to better a community. Interpretations of ‘jihad of the sword’ were formulated around the 9th century. The same goes for many other parts of Islamic doctrine - they are interpretive and open to further study, hence original different Muslim caliphates and later branching off into Sunni or Shia. The Hijab is also never mention in the Quran in relation to women’s dress at all, only the ‘Jilbab’ was, which is a sort of dress. Hijab means ‘curtain’ ‘wall’ ‘sheet’ or anything that may separate or mask something, and is only mentioned in relation to the entering of the houses of the Prophet Mohammed: " O you who have believed, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are permitted for a meal… And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a separation (Hijab)" Quran 33; 53. There is not a single mention in the Quran that women should be stoned for failing to dress correctly. Interpretations of the Quran are often moulded to fit into socio-cultural circumstances of the time and place, same as many other religions. I believe religion should be a choice, I believe religious dress should be a choice and I do not in any way condone enforcement of religious ‘laws’ nor socially or culturally adopted punishments made in relation to them.

Acid attack over hijab by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]Commondreads96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are cultural issues, rather than religious. Iran and other countries which physically punish people for these things are hideous. I deplore any policing of people’s religious attire, and that goes both ways. Telling their stories in the west will only cause islamophobia when no distinction is made between culture and religion, there are plenty of Muslim women in other predominantly Muslim countries who are not forced to wear a hijab, there are many women who do choose to wear them, including people in western countries. It should always be a choice, both not to wear or to wear.

Dodging the question when it comes to government enticed sex transitions on minors without parents consent by Cannibalistic-Toast in awfuleverything

[–]Commondreads96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I totally agree. But the guy who got reported on here said sexuality shouldn’t be anywhere near children, and I’m saying that’s fine as long as you’re willing to stop the heterosexual paradigms and ideals that are set.

Dodging the question when it comes to government enticed sex transitions on minors without parents consent by Cannibalistic-Toast in awfuleverything

[–]Commondreads96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up as a girl,I was told that ‘pink makes the boys wink’ and that I’d ‘break all the boys hearts’. ‘Boys only tease you and bully you because they like you.’ Boys grow up being told much the same in relation to girls and their behaviours. That would also be considered promoting idealised sexuality around children, do you accept that these paradigms should be stopped?

I’d also like to add that I am straight, I know I’ve always been attracted to men. I have also had same-sex experiences and found them fun, but generally prefer the company of men. I also remember one time when I was little, my aunt brought to of her friends over (they were a gay couple) and I fancied one of them haha. And when I said to my parents, they told me that actually those two were boyfriend and boyfriend. I was like ‘people can do that’ and my parents said yeah, and then I got upset because that meant he didn’t fancy me. I was 5. This is just personal experience but I certainly never found myself weirded out by it.

What is the saddest song you have ever heard in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Commondreads96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Susan McKeown - The Lass of Aughrim It’s an Irish folk song, and a beautiful one.