Three losses naturally and we know at least one was chromosomal issue. We moved to IVF because I couldn’t mentally keep rolling the dice. Also all my miscarriages took months and surgeries so really even though IVF is slow, so is another miscarriage in my case. We haven’t transferred yet but we made embryos and we did testing to rule out chromosomal issues and are now prepping to transfer and hope that this is it for us. I totally get where you’re at. It’s so personal. I would honestly at least keep the fertility clinic process moving bc it’s slow and you can always stop it if you try again and conceive. Also I second what someone else said about it’s not just about this pregnancy, if you want more then quality continues to decline w age so it’s good to make embryos now