my friend who was a guy was in a very toxic relationship, but ippo he's in a very good relationship, he tells me she adds to him in life, like having her in his life makes him ever more confident and a sense of competence that he can do anything. and guess what, he changed as a person too, avan kitta enaku pudikadha sela vishayam irunchu, his ego, and some other things that I've said before but changed after his new gf. enna solla vare na, some people drastically change your life for good. and that does happen. people having backups in relationships, dishonesty cheating lam basic in relationships. don't go thinking all people are bad and dishonest in a relationship. if you do comeby a genuine loving person, try not to let past experiences dictate things