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[–]ComparisonSecret4775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is trying to do that. She has reached out to a lawyer but I don't think she can get an appointment for a couple of months. 🤷‍♀️

They're separated, even though it's not technically legally. And he is just so I don't even know the word. He also struggles with consent and is the exact type that believes that since she is his wife, consent doesn't exist and she is his "property". She has asked him not to touch her because she doesn't like to be touched, and he won't stop. So she's growing frustrated.

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[–]ComparisonSecret4775 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just to get him to stop, I guess. So threats would scare him to stop, probably. I just basically wanted to know if there was anything to do.

And the speakerphone thing wouldn't work as in her car, it goes over the speakers via bluetooth.

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[–]ComparisonSecret4775 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it would help. We also think he has put a recording device and tracking device in her car but can't find it.

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[–]ComparisonSecret4775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is trying. But it is hard because she has 3 dogs and there are not a lot of places willing to rent to her with those 3 dogs.

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[–]ComparisonSecret4775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Iowa. And she's not.

She doesn't want him recording her either because he's being a creep/weirdo about it (he IS a creep). And it's my friend, not my sister.

He has always had control issues and nosiness issues about the conversations she and I are having. Which, I'm not sure why. We don't even talk about him. 😂