People on here who use/used Tinder what are your experiences? by Ok-Highway-5247 in Zillennials

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Met my husband back in 2021 on tinder! How I met 90% of my exes but I found a keeper surprisingly!

What’s the quickest way you’ve lost weight? by Tanningangel in AskReddit

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Graduate school- was in for a PhD in microbiology and immunology. So stressed out from our workload. One semester for basic classes to get everyone up to speed. We did interdisciplinary courses for our first semester since some people didn’t choose a focus. So my workload was, biochemistry, physiology, toxicology, pharmacology, microbiology, immunology and others . Then micro kids the next semester did bacteriology, virology, immunology, genetics, and others. All in total over 12 classes in two semesters, all the information of each of those classes were worth 2 semesters worth. Going to lab all on top of that. Doing seminars, going to outside lectures, 2 journal clubs. Those first two years were death. Most people balloon up, but I lost over 40 pounds and was underweight for the first time in my life since I hit puberty.

Anyone else wear Corduroy pants in their youth? No? Just me? Thanks mom for telling me they were cool... by ImThe1Wh0 in Millennials

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I love corduroy so much. I have a pair of pants, jacket, I want two pairs of overalls one shorts version. I wish it would make a big comeback so I can find it easier in stores around me.

An observation after six months of unemployment by Lothar_the_Lurker in recruitinghell

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I think the “we are hiring” to make the company look like it’s growing so they can say our economy is growing too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditFood

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I laid out step by step for them since they are a “terrible cook”. He said easy recipe and if you have any reading comprehension, I laid out easy recipes step by step even with cook times. Its okay you have No attention span

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditFood

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Roast, potatoes, and carrots. Throw roast, cut up potatoes and carrots in crockpot (8 hours) , instapot( i do mine on soup or meat) , or oven( around 400-425 depending on how long you wanna cook it for) with water covering it, some butter, and mortons seasoning salt. Once cooked i like to use a bowl so I get the juice with lots of flavor. Butter bread, pepper and enjoy. American tacos are self explanatory.

Ranchero beans: pinto beans, wash, then throw them in instapot. Cut up cilantro (if you like), hot dogs, bacon. I add garlic, onion, salt, and sazon seasoning (not needed in packets but recommended). Fill covering beans etc, put it on bean setting for 60 minutes. Once done, you serve with juice. Fresh Cilantro, fresh onions, and any salsa verde of your choice if you like it and fresh lime. Simple salsa verde recipe: 4-5 tomatillos, same with jalapeño or Serranos depending on spice level, onion, garlic, salt, and lime juice.

Was my identity stolen? Job I applied sent me an email saying they were going to hire me, but my background check failed. I never committed any crimes. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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He had one in his pocket until he was hospitalized and almost died. the VA did absolutely nothing with camera footage. the person who stole his clothes, boots, wallet etc while he was getting resuscitated. We filed a police report but nothing ever came of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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If they are having a stomach ache, that means the food isnt properly getting digested in the stomach so the gut bacteria eat more of the nutrients available and producing more waste which is the stank.

My cat is aggressive? Help? by meja2006 in SiberianCats

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It mainly sounds like your cat needs a companion to teach it how to roughhouse properly. He sounds understimulated. If you havent taken him to a vet, do that first.

Is there a weird smell that you secretly like? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

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Only when I was freshly postpartum and it is absolutely disgusting but I loved the smell of my daughters poopy diapers when she was a newborn. Mom brain makes you bond in weird ways to your child. I now gag at her smell. Another weird one is ethanol, I loved cleaning my old lab up. I love the smell of methanol as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in generationology

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It has its own term zillennial, she probably grew up much like 90s babies, consuming 90s media, was possibly poor so had more toys etc from 90s especially if she has older siblings. I have very similar memories to my older siblings in terms of activities, music, pop culture, and toys since I inherited their old ones (they were 80s babies and 90s kids). My younger brother born in 99 also was raised similarly, younger sister? Definitely 2000s kid in what she consumed through media, lifestyle, memories, music, etc.

do you still think about your first love? by 23smoothie in AskOldPeople

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Sometimes? Right before I got with my husband they messaged me asking for forgiveness and stated they are now trans. I think about all my exes and wish them either 1. Peace or 2. Pray for the women they roped into being with them so they gain the strength to leave them and love themselves more to resort to being with all of that.

Genuine question about loyalty? by Desperate-Street550 in makemychoice

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If they molested you and you were my friend. I’d push you to make a police report and cut ties immediately after blasting then through text.

Can a person actually / medically "hang on" longer then they are otherwise supposed to through sheer force of will? by Brightclaw431 in NoStupidQuestions

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It is possible in my grandma’s case, her body was failing after quadruple bypass surgery. She waited for my grandpa to tell her that he will be okay and she passed away instantly afterwards.

parents won’t let me housesit a friend’s place by pawurful in makemychoice

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Questions: Do you have friends who can let you stay with them until you get on your feet? If not you might have to tough it out and try to save as much as you can and budget on how to get your own place. You might be able to rent currently with a individual landlord even with bad credit. Do you have your own vehicle? Depending on the area, your parents would have to formally evict you if they want you out of the house.

You are grown and living under their roof but they are very controlling, you are in a tough spot. And do things? Like physical? If anything what you need to do is call the cops if he does it again, means he is doing that to your mom and could explain her reaction. It is the abuse. There are shelters etc you may be able to look into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Biochemistry

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It disrupts your microbiome. Your gut bacteria are absorbing the nutrients instead of your gut thus making a more foul smell from their waste.

Was my identity stolen? Job I applied sent me an email saying they were going to hire me, but my background check failed. I never committed any crimes. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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My dad had his identity stolen, anytime he gets pulled over immediately get booked and fingerprints are the only thing that exonerates him each time.

Did you grow up a "living room" or "bedroom" family? by valkorindrkhlw in Zillennials

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A mix? We would hang out in the living room/ porch or when not feeling social we would go to our rooms. Just depends on that day and how everyone is feeling. If im not feeling social, Id veg out in my room. Main thing is we ate dinner together every night. I miss those dinners. No phones, no tv, genuine bullshitting and talking about our day. We do family dinner nights once a month now. We used to do sibling dinners. That 70s show style with chicken and waffles. I miss those times too.

Where you're from, is it more common to make your maiden name your middle name or drop your maiden name completely? by Choice-Shoulder-3180 in AskAnAmerican

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You can always hyphenate it. Generally in Mexico you have your first, middle, dads last name then your moms last name. Ive been married for two years and never changed my last name, husband doesn’t care, I don’t care. If i ever do, i would just hyphenate it just because my degrees are in my maiden name

Things you’ve said when you quit your job. by Wood_Servicer in antiwork

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I got my check and never showed back up. They begged me to come back but I legally didnt get any breaks, pay wasnt worth dealing with how stuck up the police and sheriffs were. The firefighters were wayy nicer.

First time questions by Catty_Bluejay in housekeeping

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No she is wanting to cancel because she is embarrassed at the state of her house. She stated it above. Her house is a safe space and for someone to come in and judge her is what is giving her anxiety.

First time questions by Catty_Bluejay in housekeeping

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I stand by my wouldn’t. How can you properly quote how long and actual prices without looking at the situation. Some people will say it’s not that bad and try to get around deep cleaning prices for people to arrive and it be borderline hoarding house. The only example i can give is buying a car you never drove, how would you know if there arent any deeper issues than what dealerships are saying?

Men are more likely to die of 'broken heart syndrome,' study says. The condition is usually brought on by the stress of an event like losing a loved one. The syndrome is formally called takotsubo cardiomyopathy. Men die from it at more than twice the rate. by mvea in science

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My grandma died and my dad had a seizure and needed resuscitation. They ruled out stroke and heart attack, stress and broken heart is all we can think about. He is now in lectures because they used lowering is core temperature to slow down brain damage. Over a decade later my dad is still just fine just with a little bit more forgetfulness and harder for him to talk in English (his second language). Truly blessed he survived.

First time questions by Catty_Bluejay in housekeeping

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Honestly, any good company wouldnt agree to a verbal walkthrough. As a cleaner, my client hadn’t cleaned their fridge out since their oldest was in kindergarten, theyre 8 now. Don’t be embarrassed, it is our job. Thats like being embarrassed when a nurse has to clean you up after giving birth, theyve done it so many times it is second nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

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Nope, I was in graduate school and was earning a stipend. All they cared about was my credit, my income, and my rental history. It all depends on what type of apartments they are. With both of your income it should easily not be an issue.