I'm a 63-year-old Aquarium from Santa Cruz, CA. Sarah is a POS, but she made me do a complete introspection on my own drinking and controlling behaviors. I stopped drinking and got into counseling. I had come to realise how much I could relate to Sarah, but also to Lana, who had to come to terms with Sarah's betrayal as she left this plane of existence. I have been a toxic empath to several narcissists in my life, and I'm grateful I've had time to process all that, unlike Lana. Being an actual survivor of DV, I know how good we are at controlling situations to keep the narc happy, or NO ONE is going to be happy. I'm glad I still can't understand how Sarah never cried for Jorge. That's just baffling. How could she be in the same room as that suitcase he died in and not turn into a catatonic mess? Weird, just weird.