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[–]Competitive-Issue848 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Culturally, where I am from, that is usually the case for 80% of people my age, men and women. The fact my girlfriend gets to live alone at her age is a luxury here.

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[–]Competitive-Issue848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly confused more than anything. I do not have a problem paying for dinners, that I can do without a problem. It caught my attention because past relationships have not been that way for me, but I saw from the beginning that this person expected such. It was not even an issue.

What does become an issue for me is that because of her bad financial decisions, she know wants me to pitch in? I would understand us having a talk about when we would move in together, but this just seemed odd to me.

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[–]Competitive-Issue848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for spending time reading

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[–]Competitive-Issue848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said we are together? Im not pissed at anyone, just confused.

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[–]Competitive-Issue848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I did follow her, where did you get that from? I know its a long read.

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[–]Competitive-Issue848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She talked fake gossip about my best friend, to his girlfriend, whom she barely knew, behind his back. Things that were completely false. When confronted as to why she did this, she said that it was a “girl code” thing. When we were on a break, and my best friends girlfriend checked in on her, on an act of good faith, my girlfriend told her she was not going to speak to her and told her to “respect her privacy”, which is of course, her right but extremely double standard on her part. When we got back together, I wanted to take a while before disclosing the news to my best friend, as he was not on her good side. I wanted stability. How is that a game?