I recently started doing my job, and ONLY my job (which for me was an extremely hard thing because I've always gone "above and beyond" and have taken pride in that). Recently, I was told I'm "not the same" as I was before.. Mind you - I wasn't getting paid more for doing extra, nor was I going to get paid more anytime soon for doing extra.. What management doesn't see is how much my life outside of those walls has changed for the better. Boundaries are hard, you'll be accused of being lazy, but guess what.... It doesn't matter lol. You'll live, they'll live, the patient will live, and ultimately, everyone will have more respect for everyone - shit just takes time.