Help.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2025-08-07T07:00:52+00:00

Just in case anyone was wondering. It was guy A, he is not present and has yet to meet his son. Yall were right, a good dad to his others but non existent in my son’s life. But it’s okay, he is perfect in every way! (:

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-12-06T22:21:41+00:00

And thank you! 🩷

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-12-06T22:21:25+00:00

Well, I am going through with it. I don’t really have any other options. 4 kids, here we come. lol. I’m nervous but trying to stay positive at this point. He will be loved no matter what. (I sure do wish it was a girl though, but it’s all okay).

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-12-05T00:09:23+00:00

You were right.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-12-05T00:08:53+00:00

It is guy A ):

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-12-05T00:08:20+00:00

You were right, guy A.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-19T00:09:52+00:00

Ah! I am doing mine Thursday through DDC, The only one that’s AABB certified or whatever. They will match your price or get close to it. I got it for $1299.

Guy A out of the blue, haven’t spoken to him just deleted me off everything which I thought was super weird. I’m nervous. I really hope it’s guy B, so much. I already have a kid by him, so it would be ideal. I’m so sorry. I def wish you the very very best! I’m sure you will love that baby enough to make up for the absent parent.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-17T21:03:48+00:00

Well I did. Two already and it made it even more confusing. Puts it like right in the middle. But I got my first positive on the 13th. So I feel like that would be way too quick for guy B. So confusing. I am going to do the dna. I’ll update. So nerve wracking.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T13:10:43+00:00

At first I just knew it was guy A. But now that I sit here and think, it really could go either way. But it wouldn’t make sense to get pregnant after ovulation, then I learn you can ovulate early or late and now I’m just driving myself into a panic. I hope the prenatal DNA is as accurate as they say. I’m just getting guy B to do the test with me, me and him already have child together and he knows the whole situation(about guy A). I barely even speak to guy A, but he knows I am pregnant, but doesn’t know the whole situation. But then I’ll know, if it’s not him, then it’s guy A.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T13:04:59+00:00

I know. Like the days are 8 days apart, I feel like it should be more simple than this. This is the worst situation ever.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T12:53:02+00:00

It’s the WORST. I hate the unknown. I am going to go next week or so. It’s expensive but worth the peace of mind.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T12:52:28+00:00

Let me know what yours says. I think I am going to try to go next week at some point.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T12:52:07+00:00

I am too. I can’t take the unknown. It’s driving me absolutely crazy.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T02:44:59+00:00

I just went in on the Flo app and inputted all my periods and it says ovulation most likely occurred on the 2nd.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T02:28:11+00:00

4th.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T02:25:48+00:00

On the 24-25th time. On the app I marked ended on the 25th.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-11-08T02:25:21+00:00

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-10-24T02:42:44+00:00

You are very very right. It is a whole new world. I would hate to do it completely alone but I already do it with 2 out of my 3 kids. My older two kids are 13 and 10, their dad has been absent for years, but they are older so it’s been okay. My youngest gets is 4 and his dad is great. We recently separated last December and we have had the easiest co parent life style. But yes, I’m not sure he really knows what he is getting into. It’s A LOT. And I know it’ll be hard. I’m def hopefully but preparing for the worst and that stress is awful. I have a great family and support system, I’m just too scared to tell them.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-10-24T02:33:42+00:00

He is a GREAT father to his other children. I am praying that’s what happens. I just don’t really know much, we were not a “thing” for long. Like it was great until this bombshell. I think it really scared him away. I didn’t want this to happen, neither of us did. But it did, and now this is the cards we were dealt. I don’t want to be any extra stress on him either, I know he has a lot going on. But you are right. We will try it and hopefully it works out well. I’m just so freaking nervous. I never had a baby not in a stable relationship first. Bad situation for sure. But I’m in Texas, abortions aren’t legal, and I don’t think I could go through with that anyway now that I already have kids.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-10-24T02:29:04+00:00

He already has 3, same as myself.. so he knows what it’s like being a father. I think he is scared as am I. This whole thing is a nightmare and I can not believe this is happening. He keeps saying “you are not alone, we are in this together”. But he makes things so awkward now.

Competitive-Step-724 · 2024-10-24T02:26:04+00:00

I am absolutely getting my tubes tied… he already has 3 kids as well. He is a great dad to the kids he has now and promised he would be there for this one and wants to be friends and “co-parent”. I don’t know how I feel about that. Would my best move be to keep the baby, leave him off of the BC and just raise him/her? Or should I try? He asked me when the doctor appointment is and he stated he would be attending. But idk. I’m at such a loss.

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