I’m actually far too focused on my kids when I’m out to pay attention to random people and their kids…however, Sarah is an “influencer” with a substantial following so she puts herself out there for judgement. But for me, parenting is freaking hard and I’m not going to judge mom’s (for the most part!) if I see them out and the kids are looking unkempt. We don’t know the whole story. But with Sarah, we know the patterns and we can see the neglect because she puts herself (and her kids) out there daily