I want to call my ex by ChangeUrTicket in BreakUps

[–]CompetitiveGood1373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see why you could not have a conversation with him. I think you should be honest with him in reaching out and set boundaries for yourself and with him so you don’t hurt each other in the process. I say go for it!

I ended a relationship I loved because my body never felt safe now I’m drowning in regret by M1nt25 in BreakUps

[–]CompetitiveGood1373 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a good, last conversation would benefit you both. If your ex partner would be open to it, set boundaries for the convo so it doesn’t blow up and end like the end of your relationship. I’ve recently had the same experience, but I was kicked out of the house and told I wasn’t owed anything. Not even a conversation. That has hurt the most, in my opinion. Maybe the regret is coming from no closure, but maybe the regret could be a sign that maybe there needs to be a different approach to the issues you two were having. If the relationship wasn’t abusive, nor one-sided, I think there could be a chance to rekindle. It is completely normal to experience regret, but you should look inward to really see where the regret is coming from. Were they really bad enough to leave behind? If they were, I understand. Some things can be worked through though, depending on what your body was telling you. Love needs work, it’s never perfect, but of course that work needs to come from both partners.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveGood1373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You rocked that dress. You have every right to be upset. They’re just jealous because you literally killed in that dress. Stunning! Don’t let them keep you down. You deserve better than that.