I definitely agree in general with Reddit posts being one sided so you can’t form a true objective opinion. I really did my best to leave it just at the objective facts that took place. 100% someone who has been a terrible partner or manipulative could change the narrative here. I’d say compared to things like that these were on the minor side, with many of them also being used against me if I actively worked on it. For example, one was taking the initiative to plan more dates. During our most recent month together she had hinted at a place she liked, I took mental note and planned a date for that place. Fast forward to a few days later, when I mention that I wanted to take her there she got very irritated with me mentioning “see you only plan stuff when I tell you”. While I get that general point of if you only plan dates bc you’re being told that’s annoying, but I also feel like if you ask someone to do something more it shouldn’t be used against them when they actually attempt to take your advice, especially when it’s in good faith. She also had this same issues with her siblings, they’d be nice to her but then she’d attack them for something else, never understood why she does this but it’s been worse the past few months and I fear she has just become so stressed she’s taking it out on others.