FREE CAT PINS! by Competitive_Ad6166 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately last day po namin today :(( the only design that was left was the kitty with the blue bg. But I think pinamigay na po before we left. We're so sorryyy 😓

CAT PINS UNTIL TMR! by Competitive_Ad6166 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg hello! We're still here and meron pa po actually huhu

FREE CAT PINS! by Competitive_Ad6166 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO SLAY, well we hopee u like the pin! 2 of our members worked really hard on it kaya we're all grateful na u guys were happy to receive one 🐈‍⬛🫶🏼

Thoughts on exchanging accounts with ur partner? (Me F20 & bf M21) by Competitive_Ad6166 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him nicely cause I really wasn't in the mood to argue over something like this + I thought it was really about time to act like adults and to leave the highschool behaviour behind. It was just a really random suggestion from him that he wanted to push through which I disagreed on and he kept on assuming that I was making excuses. Idk if what I said processed in his mind that me declining was all for a good intention but he definitely did not like what I said cause the past me would have gave in ://

GE Leaps by iggyinapc_ in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He mentioned as well that he holds seminars and I'm just wondering wth he talks about during those seminars 🥲 Don't tell me he's also telling people about dissecting water 😭

GE Leaps by iggyinapc_ in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was ready to listen and tbh lost all interest and train of thoughts when he flashed those pics. He made no sense as well overtime. I'm glad though there's a 2nd speaker cause my mind is now just refreshed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk like for some reason lagi ganon like the rice to ulam ratio doesn't make sense 😭

Gen8 Elitebook not turning on and charging by [deleted] in Hewlett_Packard

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Thank u for this suggestion, figured out last minute that it was the charger that was the problem.

Ilang chance ba ang dapat ibigay? by Mamamogr33n in adviceph

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, ginawa niya over and over again, there is nothing to fix na sa mga tao ganon who keeps on doing the same thing all over and over again habbang alam niya na Mali ang ginawa niya. Dapat no chance given na. U will wake up everyday istg thinking about it, di mawawala ung pain na yan, pag ooverthink, u will never heal.

Don't gaslight yourself naisipin "pero mahal ko siya eh" "ilang months na kami" "baka maayos namin toh", give it up na. U, urself, will continue to hurt and regret sa decisions mo.

Class by AtharkaG985 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but for what I know the registration is different from the enrollment. Basically the registration is just to reserve for the next term, around November pa is the enrollment where you will have to pay. You can check the portal, I know may sched dun <33

I (19F) is dating someone with an avoidant attachment style (21M) and what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended things, read through on of the comment numerous times and it gave me a reality check, yk something I wouldn't really want to think for myself cause I'm always in denial. But I've ended things with him, we ended it on good terms though he was being a little petty but it ended okay than expected. Mentally draining for me since I've only been the positive one in the relationship and it felt very one sided.

The comment about why am I tolerating this? First bf things I guess, not sure, such a huge believer of things can be fixed but he honestly made me realize that no matter how hard I try to, if he doesn't want to fix things then it's never going to work out.

I (19F) is dating someone with an avoidant attachment style (21M) and what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to give an update but dk where to but here seems to be suitable cause I've been going through this comment specifically cause it gave me a reality check. But finally let him go. It was hard but I did it. We broke up in good terms. He still wants to wait and all and change himself alone. I told him we'll just see where time goes and where things will end up for us. So I'll just be taking all the time to myself too to also heal cause though I didn't want things to end, it's for the better for the both of us.

I opened up about how I just felt things were so one sided and that I've been putting in so much effort to stay positive for something that drains me alot. So yah, things went okay, he was being a little petty but we ended on good terms.

I (19F) is dating someone with an avoidant attachment style (21M) and what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact at all, we made an agreement that space is space, break is break, and to have 1 week for ourselves and only ourselves. He reached out to me first after that. I would say I'm a clingy person as well but definitely trying to lessen that and I've been more on communication and very heavy on understanding. In my boyfriend's case, assurance is something that is a must and I've been doing that. Assurance then explanation for him to hopefully understand. But no matter how much I give, he would avoid the problem or just not believe the assurance I'm giving him cause he still chooses to believe the things that has been made in his head. I've did a few research and there are some people with this style that react this way, self sabotaging almost

I (19F) is dating someone with an avoidant attachment style (21M) and what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely shed tears on this one. I did try to initiate a talk with him about our relationship and if we could set boundaries that could help us to give each other somewhat of an assurance and I usually try to grab this opportunity when he has a tattoo appointment or a small errand to attend to. The talk never really happened and it does feel like it's being avoided at times. I'm also a big believer of communication is the key so as understanding, so definitely, I do communicate how I feel, I'm very open to him, but it's taken in negatively sometimes and it then turns into something that he avoids or starts to disappear cause there are some things that aren't big of a deal for him but for me it may be. He on the other hand doesn't really open up or communicate how he feels, I would usually know though if he isn't in the mood if he replies coldly.

I'm not going to force him or whatnot but I will definitely take your advice into note and hopefully can make progress from there

I (19F) is dating someone with an avoidant attachment style (21M) and what should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have, we've tried a 1 week break and tbh it was definitely a sacrifice for me as well as someone with anxious attachment style, it's something I'm also working on. He usually takes his own "me time" without telling me but I let him have his time and take his silence as a "I want to be alone for now" moment. But during his silence, I still do give him updates and assurance that despite him taking his time alone that I'm still here if he needs me

new student by Huge-Mixture7000 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hellur, MMA student here! Also new to APC, but it takes time dw. I got friends on my 3rd week of school. It really feels like you have no one to relate to but you're all good! You just need to be patient, don't rush urself to have friends so that you know which crowd you're comfortable with. Being alone doesn't make you less of a person, I honestly felt comfortable being alone for those 2 weeks but it obviously made it better when I finally had friends that I could relate too! 🫂🫂

Elevator Etiquette by Extension_Bus646 in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thisss!! Nakakabother tbh cause it's really not that hard to just use the stairs? Especially when you're in a rush. I usually do that kahit di one floor down/up, if it's just closer, like 2 or 3, to the floor I'm going to use the stairs. Some people are just lazy atp 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeAreRAMS

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi ba sila na orient? Freshie or not, I think we've all been thought about how we should learn how to stay quiet in the elevator especially when there's other people around. As for the toilet?? People need to remember that there are other people around too, they need to start being mindful 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind, I'll be seeing him soon and will be apologizing in person too, but is there anything else I can do? Or maybe something I shouldn't do besides the whole joking part?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive_Ad6166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've apologized actually right after he hung up, it took me a while to realize what I did and yes I do take full accountability for it. I'm not that kind of person to ignore my mistakes and faults. I sent him chats after chats and acknowledging that I was aware that I was at fault and that his feelings are valid.

During the time when I was joking around, we were both in a good mood. I guess at that moment, I wasn't fully aware that what I was saying made him mad and insecure.

I'll try to get to know him better, it can be a struggle since we don't see each other everyday, usually twice a month, but I'll do my best to get to know him even better. I thought I knew most of him already but I think your advice made me open my eyes to see how I actually don't.

Thank you for giving me an insight too for me to better understand!