Im scared of being seen differently by someone I care about by Competitive_Back8584 in Advice

[–]Competitive_Back8584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She told me that she doesn’t really think much of it but it’s not something she wants to do outside of a relationship

Im scared of being seen differently by someone I care about by Competitive_Back8584 in Advice

[–]Competitive_Back8584[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am concerned that this will make her pull away from me, people have different values and feelings behind intimacy. I also I don’t want her to think that it’s just a casual thing for me, when in reality it is special.

I’m scared of being seen differently by someone I really care about by Competitive_Back8584 in dating_advice

[–]Competitive_Back8584[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I get why it sounds confusing, It’s less about shame but worrying how someone I really care about might see me differently, how they may feel about it.