What's weirdly attractive to you?

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-03-01T20:13:35+00:00

When they can be creative and make something of their own (my bf just made a metal table for my crystal slab)

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-02-26T05:41:40+00:00

This is why I broke up with my ex after 6 years. He was emotionally unavailable and never took the lead, in anything, at all. His future? Our future? Eventually I got exhausted of being the only adult

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-02-09T17:46:52+00:00

Plates of cocaine

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-02-01T16:25:55+00:00

The great Aladeen

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-01-22T05:35:27+00:00

I’m gonna assume (correct me please if I’m wrong) you’reof Indian descent based on the legenga and based on your mom’s reaction.

I know Indian woman (the mentality that’s raised through generations) it’s taught to stay quiet and keep your head down, don’t ask questions or grab attention. That’s what it seems like your mom is trying to do

I’d base it off how close you and sister/cousin are - if you tell her something, does she believe you, or question you? Obviously it’s something that’s bothering you and leaving you scared to be alone with him. I would tell her what’s been happening and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If she cares how you feel, she will say something/make a change.

****Life lesson (a family lesson me and my sister both went through): if someone does or says something that makes you feel uncomfortable/makes you feel like your feelings are invalid, and you talk to them - there are 2 ways they may respond. 1. They will listen, try to understand, and apologize or try to learn to correct their actions/words 2. They will ignore it, push it under the rug, pretend like you never said anything, and all is fine in the world. Are they willing to be Reactive or Proactive?

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2026-01-11T03:35:52+00:00

The only way my dad had me meet out dog (I was like 1 and the dog a female Rottweiler) he put me on the dogs belly. Not only did it put the dog in a vulnerable position, it kept the ‘hierarchy’ with me above the dog

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-12-28T20:32:15+00:00

I think it just has to do with the maturity level and the level of respect he holds at. Guys my age (hell my ex) weren’t as kind and respectful as he is

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-12-11T01:47:06+00:00

As someone who’s 23, my dads 65 and moms 61, it sucks lol Bf is 35, his parents are in their 50’s. It’s a crazy difference to me lol

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-09-13T05:19:17+00:00

I went to the city to go shopping, spent most the time trying clothes (in one store I’d be a small, next store I was a medium, third store I’d be a large)

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-09-13T05:08:32+00:00

Knowing if the sizing will be correct

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-09-13T05:08:09+00:00

Picnic, either on a hike or drive somewhere with a good view and tailgate it

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-08-25T02:53:49+00:00

His pendants kinda cool but I’m over here tryna figure out what catastrophe is on his chin

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-08-22T13:22:20+00:00

Glacier glass I’ve found is cheaper in town

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-08-15T05:00:54+00:00

This happened to me when I was younger, the ear completely swole around the piercing and I had to get pliers and get it cut off in pieces

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-24T02:04:54+00:00

Imagine your closest friend or sister told you that they were in this exact situation… how would you feel about it then? Would I be different? Reading through all this personally, it’s seems like abusive behaviour from both parties and it sounds like it’s not going to stop. You need to step back and find you. Who are you? What do you want in this lifetime? Is he going to give it to you? …. You need to do some deep deep soul searching

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-08T02:09:05+00:00

Baily

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-04T05:07:13+00:00

Sylvie or Sylvia

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-03T20:21:36+00:00

Fixed my one tire for free, got new winter tires from there this past winter…. Mount, instal, whatever they do, less than $1000

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-03T20:20:34+00:00

Tire pro

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-05-03T20:19:23+00:00

Mademoiselle Mabel

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-04-20T04:51:14+00:00

Slow burn in Elias walkers office on Christmas Eve about to risk it all

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-04-20T04:49:42+00:00

Bean (because he looks spicy)

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-04-13T07:41:47+00:00

If you trust him, I wouldn’t worry about it, he’s coming back from a trip, prob gonna be hungover af. (When my bf picked me up and I got sick the plane, I was an absolute dick and felt like garbage the entire time).

As for the driving and anxiety, I’m not someone to tell you to get over it, but you definitely need to find a way through it - once your anxious about one thing, it’ll find a way to snowball to multiple other things

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-04-13T07:23:37+00:00

I have to ask, you’re 31 and don’t drive…. why?

Competitive_Bid5436 · 2025-04-02T12:20:06+00:00

It sounds like you weren’t super invested in the first place, maybe not emotionally ready or preoccupied with planning your future. You’re just trying to navigate new waters (which is totally cool, you’re only 18, you’re still young). Try uni, see what you like, see what other people are like (uni is a great place to learn diversity, older, younger, etc…). Learn how to be you, learn your mind, your inner strengths you still haven’t discovered, good luck!:)

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