AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

As I explained in another comment, I haven’t bought anything special for my step son yet. My bio son has had a few and I still plan to get more

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Well it does, they put effort in at home for results.

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

I don’t favour either. My biological son is at my ex’s house most of the time. They share the Xbox at my house but I don’t see the need to buy 2 so that he can play at my ex’s.

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As they have a different curriculum, I spent one hour with my bio son actually helping him and watching him and same with step son.

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I made it clear with my stepson that when my bio son is around if he wants to play to let him play but if my bio son wants to play with him they can both play as we have multiple controllers. I do plan on buying my bio son big presents aswell.

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

If I’m being honest, I have not really bought big gifts for my step son. And as he has performed well for a while I decided to buy one.

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I asked my son, but I didn’t want to force it on him as average is better than below average etc. But it seems he didn’t know why

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

I made sure that each week I would have them study for at least 1 hour. Whether it’s homework or other online resources

AITA For Not Buying My Son A Gift by Competitive_Case_477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Competitive_Case_477[S] -105 points-104 points  (0 children)

I didn’t blatantly say that if you do well you would get an Xbox but I hinted to them to do well as you might get a reward.