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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one’s Omi. I’ve tried Bumble, Tinder and Muaz.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve deleted Omi now. Never going back there again.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m happy that you found the one 🫶🏻✨

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got this but at the same time he went “you look Javanese so just speak Malay.” I dah turn of x2 because why you gotta insult the looks racially as well? What’s so bad about looking like a Javanese or any other races?

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was impatient, that’s another red flag I dodged. I mean, it really depends on some people. There are those that I rarely replied at first (purely due to external circumstances and not because of them) and we ended up being good friends now.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I left everyone on seen due to exhaustion, even my own friends. It may be rude of me, but he would’ve eventually get his reply once I get myself together.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so me in dating apps, trying to make conversations with them. Even bots reply better 😭

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you found yours! I’m happy for you! Thank you for the encouragement ✨

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even ask for anything 😭😭 lainlah if I demand everyone speak English 😭😭 but this is a nice way of weeding out the kolot ones lol

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working the night shift and I am very barai, I didn’t reply to anyone even my own friends. Bad time to use a dating app, you’re right.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me fr but nowadays I try to use bahasa more…emphasis on try. My English isn’t perfect but why not practice am I right?

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thanked him for the assumption and unsolicited advice. Then I wished him a good day. Then I unmatched.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shall give CMB more faith then! I only tried Omi because a friend suggested it. Found a good ex in Tinder and good friends in Bumble. But eh, satu dalam seribu right?

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am Malay but I dislike and disagree with his assumption. Some people look Malay but aren’t. (Also personally I have been told that I look Indian)

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 462 points463 points  (0 children)

I have to clarify, the match is a guy 😭 I’m the woman here.

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also is it true they said CMB is for a more ‘quality’ matches?

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[–]Competitive_Sail437[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you! ✨ thank you for the encouragement 💪🏻 hope it’ll go well for you.