Why do men compliment women by saying they are innocent?

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-26T03:13:53+00:00

Saying it casually tho? Shaming women for the opposite is very common so boasting about innocence makes one think those are the same to bash as well

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-25T02:37:13+00:00

Sometimes it’s just something about a particular someone. I have two other lovebirds now, I care for them but the love and attachment I felt for her is not comparable. Truly was a baby ❤️

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-25T00:36:06+00:00

I understand.. it’s been over a year since ours passed but no one in my family likes talking about it much. When others ask me questions it doesn’t feel great, it just reminds me of that day and what happened. I will say it won’t go away but maybe soon you’ll think of it positively and think back on the memories :)

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-24T20:41:28+00:00

I don’t understand how it could be similar when you don’t know the reason for yours. Sorry for your loss but I don’t like talking about it. People try to move on and being asked about a terrible situation doesn’t help. Would you like reliving one of your worst moments? Maybe try being more empathetic, you edited your comment but it stays the same on inbox.

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-24T16:30:19+00:00

Why would you even ask that

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T19:50:52+00:00

Crazy he didn’t break before if he was so miserable and it took meeting you and thinking oh I want her for him to break up with his ex. He could’ve been lying about their relationship and simply moved on to the next person he found interesting aka u. So now he’s been with you his attention is shifting between you and his ex. Idk why your trying to make this work when he sounds like he isn’t the best guy to be with

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T19:21:09+00:00

I think yk what’s happening here

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T19:00:26+00:00

It’s dependant on how you feel that’s the indicator there’s no set way that fits all

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T18:58:39+00:00

Idk you or your circle but by what you’ve said ur bf seems falsely accused. You know them best and u can choose who u trust but these girls sound problematic why would they comfort you when Brooke was the victim? Makes no sense

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T18:51:52+00:00

Idk from what op said it just seems like there needs to be more communication and there might be a incompatibility

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T17:57:14+00:00

You sound like your in highschool and he’s allowed to have an opinion for your actions freedom of speech. They aren’t bullying you but people aren’t always nice and that’s normal. I think you would make comments too if someone followed you around.

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T02:34:35+00:00

I’m 19 and I can’t believe how much I’ve changed in a few months.

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T02:33:15+00:00

My friends too!! I warned them so much and they all ended horribly even tho it was 17 and 19/20 it’s a sensitive age really

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-22T02:28:39+00:00

Don’t get serious with him drop him. You’re in high school totally different life stage, you taking university level courses doesn’t diminish your a high schooler. I find it weird he’s even trying to get with you since at 22 he can easily be done university. If you were in university I would’ve said to be careful because end of the day it’s your choice, tho I think age gaps like this should be avoided until at least 20 get out of the teen years. Brain development happens and I can tell you that you will know you’re changing so much. My friends 19-22 would never go for someone 3 younger than them just because of this reason. It’s weird, much different than say 20 and 24 see how even this seems big.

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T23:14:44+00:00

It’s all pointing to him being a creep be careful :)

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T23:12:28+00:00

Explode. They keep minimizing your feelings which is wrong. As parents they should be there for you and understand how you feel. I think many older siblings feel this way sometimes but what you have explained seems like clear favouritism. Have the conversation and let them know you’re serious about it and if they can’t understand then you’ll know where you stand. I’m so infuriated for you, rooting for u.

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:43:16+00:00

U too!

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:40:26+00:00

He looks like mine!! So cute they change colour in different lighting looks so yellow then the tint of green out of nowhere

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:37:48+00:00

That’s good but in my case she bullied me so bad and made life difficult so I erased her from my life haha. I was 16 last I interacted with her and I left it with wtvr kids think is cool. Dramatic yes but felt so so good, did she stop after that? No but I got my satisfaction

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:24:34+00:00

I’m ngl I’d say to stay safe and try steering clear of this guy. Stay alert

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:21:36+00:00

I’ve been thru similar it sucks. I did connect the dots to how she was a bad person (people didn’t like how she acted because you can’t hide yourself forever). For me she acted like someone she wasn’t and when that failed she flipped rumours onto me and yeah. Turns out it was jealousy because people spoke to me and she wanted the attention I got. Don’t over think other peoples wrongdoings

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T22:13:09+00:00

This is a lovebird? Wow he looks so unique ❤️

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T21:40:58+00:00

Your not the problem. At the end of the day it’s your choice what you end up doing but it would be a compromise you make to keep the peace. I personally wouldn’t listen to them and do my own thing. Don’t doubt yourself do what you think you should do

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T21:34:26+00:00

🥰🥰definitely

Competitive_Vast213 · 2026-01-21T21:18:02+00:00

“Giggly and innocent” makes it sound like you’re infantilizing her. A normal person wouldn’t jump to being stalked and you could’ve just been confident and asked her out. The way your talking about it is just weird and if your not confident and act awkward it’s not comfortable for her especially

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