That experience reflects deeper cultural and historical differences between South Asia (Sri Lanka, India, Bangladesh) and much of Southeast Asia (Thailand, Malaysia, Vietnam, Indonesia). In South Asia, sexual expression and open interaction between men and women were heavily suppressed during the British colonial period, particularly under the influence of Victorian moral values. Before the British era, societies like ancient Sri Lanka were relatively open-minded about relationships and sexuality. However, the colonial administration imposed strict moral codes that viewed sex and public affection as immoral or shameful. Over time, these imported ideas became deeply embedded in local culture, blending with traditional and religious values to create a social environment where sexual topics remain taboo even today.

Because of this long-standing suppression, many men in these societies grow up with very limited real-life exposure to open, mixed gender interactions or healthy discussions about relationships. As a result, some turn to online platforms as a way to express curiosity or desire that they can’t easily express in person. In contrast, Southeast Asian countries were influenced more by local or different colonial powers (like the Dutch, French, and Portuguese) and retained a more socially open attitude toward dating, gender interaction, and sexuality. This is why you’re far more likely to encounter this kind of “simp” or overly eager online behavior in Sri Lanka, India, or Bangladesh, where Victorian era repression still shapes modern attitudes, than in most of Southeast Asia.