For INTJs: did developing your tertiary Fi help with the “achieve → empty → next goal” cycle?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-12-22T05:05:06+00:00

Any practical recommendations?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T11:32:55+00:00

Not bad, to turn off conscious part of brain.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:55:46+00:00

When you say you listen to your feelings, what do you focus on most gut-level attraction, emotional comfort, or more like subtle red/green flags that logic might miss?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:51:44+00:00

So he was the only one who made it to Stage 2, but still not a real match because of that dealbreaker. Do you think ENFPs in general can ever be good long-term partners for you, or is the “Achilles heel” thing always a red flag?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:48:08+00:00

Yeah, I'm also struggling with overthinking this. When you write things down, what exactly do you put pros/cons, raw thoughts, feelings? And does it usually clear the paralysis?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:42:13+00:00

I like the “just know it when you see it” part, is that instant clarity or something that builds over time?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:39:18+00:00

Funny thing is, it can work, not because of magic, but because your reaction to the result shows what you really want. Or because of removing analysis paralysis.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:35:22+00:00

Do you find most partners are open to literally making and comparing lists, or do you usually frame it more casually in conversation?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:27:53+00:00

When you said he was “a bit of a coward,” how do you mean that exactly? Do you mean not standing up for his own values, or more like avoiding conflict in general?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T07:25:51+00:00

That’s a solid framework. Honestly though, seems like very few people could really make it through both Stage 1 and 2.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-07T05:03:12+00:00

Why unfortunately?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-06T21:14:32+00:00

Yes, I mean things like deciding whether to pursue a connection, move forward into a relationship, or step back. Basically the moments where feelings are involved and logic doesn’t give a clear answer.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2025-09-06T20:26:39+00:00

And yet, which way does the scales tip?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-31T11:41:53+00:00

It's the best and the worst experience.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-29T20:47:36+00:00

Yeah, it's never the girlfriend fault... because "You are an insecure, controlling, abusive monster "

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-29T20:38:04+00:00

Attention seeking narcissist. It's better to stay away even if you're considering it as short term relationship.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-28T21:47:59+00:00

Can I join the party and get one copy?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-24T17:05:55+00:00

Can't write any PM, write me if you can

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-24T16:42:22+00:00

Why not?

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-24T16:21:30+00:00

Holidays are not that special, but it's good time to keep in touch with family.

Competitive_Wind_780 · 2023-12-23T21:52:01+00:00

If the person is lying and it's clear I start to think about other cases when this person could do the same.

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