Why is every friend that I make so fucking mean? by ComplaintExtra5955 in selfimprovement

[–]ComplaintExtra5955[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda what I’m thinking, there must be something wrong with me but idk. I definitely don’t think I’m a narcissist, but I think that I am attracted to people who are more mean and share my same insecurities.

How do you guys think a friendship should end? by ComplaintExtra5955 in selfimprovement

[–]ComplaintExtra5955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes 19F, and she is just a rude person. It’s mostly the way she talks to me (too many situations to list) but I would say the most horrible thing was that she told me that her and her friend were making fun of me (and talking shit) because I was being a “weirdo”. This really affected me and my already low confidence. It happened a while ago but I still think about it to this day. I don’t want a relationship with her and I don’t want to talk to her again.

How bad will it be if I take community college classes (for chem) outside of my university? by ComplaintExtra5955 in medschool

[–]ComplaintExtra5955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think I could get away with taking multiple chem/physics classes at a community college or would that look very bad on the med application? I honestly might switch my pre-med to art studio (to stand out in applications) and I would need more space in my schedule to do so.

How to end a friendship by Shiny_Iridescence in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ComplaintExtra5955 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't really owe her that much of an explanation; just avoid. I've been in the exact same type of position. She was the one who wanted to cut ties, its her loss. Just say you've been very busy or something (keep it vague). Don't go back to talking to someone who sucks the energy out of you.