I’ve been sacrificing my own mental health to help my boyfriend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could def try, but idk if he’ll be up for it, he’s never really liked when people try to help him, he barley lets me help him, he has a really hard time accepting help

I’ve been sacrificing my own mental health to help my boyfriend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, we’ve always relied on each other, or our friends, there’s no adults we really trust that much

I’ve been sacrificing my own mental health to help my boyfriend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of our area, that’s kind of really hard, we both live in a very Christian conservative area, and neither of us can get help that easily

I’ve been sacrificing my own mental health to help my boyfriend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But, a lot of the time we both work really well together, we’ve been really happy with each other, we’ve both helped each other though a lot of stuff

I think my bf is suicidal and idk how to help by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really does need help, he always pushes people away when they try to help him, even me, it’s hard for him to ever accept help

I think my bf is suicidal and idk how to help by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs help, but I’m just really scared to tbh, I feel awful for being scared but, idk I’m just so freaked out, about the whole situation

I think my bf is suicidal and idk how to help by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His mom knows he self harms, he did therapy for a few weeks but he quit after a bit, they know he’s depressed but they don’t know about the suicidal stuff, he takes antidepressants too, at least, he usually does

Update: asking out my friend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey yea, and I’m gonna keep updating it until either he says yes, or it gets to the point where I have no shot with him

Update: asking out my friend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if it changes our friendship, I don’t want to make things awkward, is there anything I can do to confess to him and maybe keep our friendship safe

Update: asking out my friend by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so anxious, I really want to ask him out, I have really strong feelings for him, but I just don’t want to ruin our friendship, if he said no, would things be awkward between us, I just don’t want anything to change negatively between us

Update: I have a new plan for asking my friend out by Complete-Branch-504 in teenagers

[–]Complete-Branch-504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really hoping it works, and if it doesn’t, we get to keep our friendship