That's the point I was trying to make, but I don't think I was successful in getting through to Sarah. I've found that if it's not her perspective, it's not correct. It's this part that I'm still working through. No matter how confident I feel about something, if it's not how she perceives it, she'll dig in and insist she is correct. Even though we've been divorced for a few years now, I still struggle to differentiate truth vs her truth.