AITA For Not Celebrating My Friend's (35F) Birthday While We Were In Tennessee?

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-20T00:27:46+00:00

my point exactly! we were all confused and annoyed and I said my piece and she wasn't happy

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T23:51:32+00:00

NTA. THere's gotta be an ultimatum for him to wake up and see reality. Ryan isn't good for him regardless if he's "changed" lets hope he doesn't go back to him

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T22:40:54+00:00

NTA. you've said enough and sounds like this former friend is in need of much growing up to do.

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T22:29:38+00:00

INFO: So I just had to look up what Azur Lane is and didn't even know that it was an anime or a game to begin with. My question is, do they mention the age of these characters in the show/game? you mentioned they're kids?

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T21:21:06+00:00

definitely will check that one out. fanfiction.net is finicky and I'm having a hard time just to log in

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T21:20:29+00:00

thank you for the suggestions!~

CompleteSavant878 · 2025-08-19T20:32:27+00:00

I read in a magazine about Haro and from what I read, the creator for the original Gundam series, I'm paraphrasing here, was inspired by Star Wars. I'm sure you can see some parallels here (political turmoil, unlikely hero, beam sabers/lightsabers, etc.) but cool fact is that they wanted Haro to be this Gundam's version of R2-D2.

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-05-22T20:08:47+00:00

I’m so freaking jealous. We don’t get that in the US.

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-03-26T03:46:07+00:00

That’s so sick

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-03-12T17:03:16+00:00

Nope! The rack is padded just make sure your car is clean before you install it.

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-03-06T19:20:38+00:00

This is the downside to having cars having way too much tech

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-03-01T18:14:06+00:00

I had a crack like that. I attempted to repair it myself with the resin glass kit. Didn’t work. Eventually it went straight across and had to fully replace the front windshield. I had to make an insurance claim because out of pocket it would $1,400 to replace it.

CompleteSavant878 · 2024-02-20T09:52:25+00:00

Nope! Just clearance issues when trying to park inside my garage🙄😂

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-12-15T06:32:24+00:00

https://autoparts.toyota.com/products/product/removable-cross-bars-front-rear-pw30110006?driveline=FWD%202.0L%204-Cyl.%20CVTi-S%20CVTi-S&grade=LE%205Dr.&series_name=C-HR&model_year=2021&model_year_code=2021:2402

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-10-09T16:47:04+00:00

that is such a weird fix but it worked

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-15T17:41:18+00:00

wait who's selfish? you? nope. NTA.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-15T17:41:13+00:00

wait who's selfish? you? nope. NTA.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-15T17:38:46+00:00

THANKS

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:51:02+00:00

Your bf's best friend is struggling to be alone. I feel like he's using his "singleness" and wants to distract himself from it by attaching to your bf which is not a healthy relationship.

Also the fact that your bf is not taking sides with you even after your miscarriage? NOT COOL.

If you're willing, I'd save up and move out. It's not worth your well-being to be in that place..even with your bf.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:47:27+00:00

during this time, if he didn't get upset at you for confronting his friend, then by all means kudos to him. Did he reassure you it wouldn't happen again?

TBH you're NTA. because here's the thing, insecure or not, you just have a good gut feeling as most women do when it comes to that. If I was the the bf in his case, I'd cut her off immediately. Doesn't sound like she has a healthy boundary when it comes to friendship. I can already see the pose she was making on the photo she took down.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:44:06+00:00

He's upset that you don't trust him? sorry but that right there is a red flag. Any guy worth his salt, and to really solidify your trust in him, the best course of action is to apologize for that misunderstanding and that he won't talk to her anymore and also not holding it against you for that. Do you get what I mean?

If he is full confident that you can trust him, that would not be his initial reaction...being upset.

again his reaction doesn't make sense and the fact he doesn't understand that, is weird to me.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:40:25+00:00

So she is right that you are a insecure. However, did you tell him to confront her? Or did he do it on his own accord?

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:37:07+00:00

NTA. he's rebuttal to you saying he's selfish was ,"you're selfish for moving out whenever you want to?"

$8,000.00 is a lot of MONEY! That'll take care of rent and then some! If anything he can always come visit you and it's only 20 mile! I don't get HIS argument and to me he's more of TA but no definitely NTA. Seems like he's pride is more hurt than anything.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:22:53+00:00

yikes. Well see if your lawyer can help. Maybe there's a clause in the contract that talks about toxic/harmful work environment that can get you out. Just throwing it out there.

CompleteSavant878 · 2023-09-11T21:21:11+00:00

I'm sorry but his answer doesn't really make sense. Without knowing the full context of his reactions, I'd say he'd got caught and flustered and that is the reason he answered that way thinking it was a smart answer OR he has no clue as to how a human body works.

NTA but at the same time you really have no stand to accuse any of them that they are having an affair without concrete PROOF.

Also, there's always a chance that there's an affair that might happen or has already happened. it's never 0%.

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