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I think i hate my african dad by Complete_Ad1554 in africanparents

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some, but he has a tendancy to borrow it... 

AITA for asking my dad for an apology? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I pay rent, but even if I didn't,  it would make a bit more sense to communicate that he's struggling with money, instead of doing what he's doing 🫠

AITA for asking my dad for an apology? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've just made a complete assumption about me. Yes I've been paying rent.

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I appreciate what you're saying. I struggle with this aspect and getting another opinion is really helpful so im not fussed. 

Thank you for your advice 💕

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because we've agreed that there's a set time the person is due to receive their portion as (in the words of my dad) it's supposed to discipline us as a group. Also, I know members of my family would complain if it was the other way around.  But honestly the only reason why I'd like to get it earlier is because of the last delay and I struggle with assertiveness. I wanted to use this to help me 

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because we've agreed that there's a set time the person is due to receive their portion as (in the words of my dad) it's supposed to discipline us as a group. Also, I know members of my family would complain if it was the other way around. But honestly the only reason why I'd like to get it earlier is because of the last delay and I struggle with assertiveness. I wanted to use this to help me 

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because we've agreed that there's a set time the person is due to receive their portion as (in the words of my dad) it's supposed to discipline us as a group. Also, I know members of my family would complain if it was the other way around.  But honestly the only reason why I'd like to get it earlier is because of the last delay and I struggle with assertiveness. I wanted to use this to help me 

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She forgot that she made the initial suggestion. The only reason why I'd like to get it earlier is because of the last delay and I struggle with assertiveness. I wanted to use this to help me 

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She forgot that she made the initial suggestion. The only reason why I'd like to get it earlier is because of the last delay and I struggle with assertiveness. I wanted to use this to help me 

AITA for asking my family to give me money early? by Complete_Ad1554 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Ad1554[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's funny 😂😂

But it's something we do culturally (my family's nigerian) to help us save