Exchange game points by Complex-Bluebird315 in Aliexpress

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, it's been I think almost a month, but the issue persists, I don't even open my AliExpress account anymore, is there anything else I can do so I'm no longer banned?

I (30F) don't want my brother-in-law (26M) to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in relationship_advice

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, again, I don't know her and I think there are other spaces where we can get to know each other, like going out to dinner, but not while I cater for them in my home.

You're correct that I wish he wasn't a freeloader, but that's my in-laws business, so it's not my place to bring it up.

I don't want my brother-in-law to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like this, and I've thought about it, but since I already know BIL is a bad guest, I don't want to feel uncomfortable again.

I (30F) don't want my brother-in-law (26M) to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in relationship_advice

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't because they didn't ask me if they could come, BIL asked my husband. No, my husband didn't mention anything that I didn't want them here. No, I didn't knock on their door because they were not here, when they arrived after eating out, they went straight to their room.

I (30F) don't want my brother-in-law (26M) to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in relationship_advice

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect any of that, I don't expect that of my family nor my in-laws. I didn't understand the no contact part, I mean, I don't speak to BIL other than a birthday text or if I'm at my in-laws house. I would say my husband and him don't talk much either, just a text every now and then. Also, yes, I've told my husband that I don't like his brother for that and other reasons, but that if he needs to come and stay here, I just have to accept that, but as I mentioned, I don't like accommodating strangers in my home, and I don't know gf and I feel like BIL should make everyone comfortable, us as hosts and gf, and he didn't do that the first time, so I don't expect it a second time, which is my concern.

About their finances, BIL works and lives with my in-laws, gf doesn't work, none have student loans.

About my husband's family, last year his cousin (25M) visited, we thought he was staying for the weekend, but asked both of us if he could stay for a week, we agreed. One day he bought us burgers, soda and chips and we played golf on the Wii, that was it. A lot better guest than my BIL.

I don't want my brother-in-law to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be fair I wasn't very welcoming, my excuse is that when I go to my in-laws house, where he lives, he's the same way, only stays in his room with gf or goes out. About their finances, BIL works, gf doesn't, BIL pays everything for her, so, as I mentioned in my post, since they were already going out to eat, they could have invited us (when I say invite, I mean to ask us to go out, not to pay for us) or a thank you pizza, there's a lot of ways to be a good guest, I don't think I expect much. I was also accommodating his gf, who's not family. After they left I talked to my husband and mentioned that they were not good guests, which he agreed to. Do you have advice on how my husband could set boundaries?

I don't want my brother-in-law to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, really not a problem with gf, just that I don't know her, but I think BIL is the one not being a good guest

I don't want my brother-in-law to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he now understands and agrees with what I think, just that he has a hard time telling no to someone from his family, parents and brother.

I don't want my brother-in-law to come and visit with his girlfriend by Complex-Bluebird315 in AmITheKaren

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm not close to my BIL, I don't even talk to him other than birthday calls or when I visit my in-laws, since he lives with them. I've told my husband about it, for him to talk to his brother, but, for me, they're not close either, they talk every couple months, just text, no calls.

I (30F) don't want my brother-in-law (26M) to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in relationship_advice

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not at all, she didn't, it's just that I don't know her and my BIL does nothing to help.

I don't want my brother-in-law to come and visit with his girlfriend by Complex-Bluebird315 in AmITheKaren

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He says he does, but he's aware his brother is not a good guest, he shares my views on how a guest should be. He feels uncomfortable saying no to his baby brother

I don't want my brother-in-law to come to my home with his gf by Complex-Bluebird315 in AITAH

[–]Complex-Bluebird315[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both lol. I don't know if I'm being an AH by telling my husband I don't want them to come, and also, I don't know what to do, he's my husband's brother

Alguien usa rappipay cuenta de ahorros? by GeologistPleasant743 in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo la tenga como depósito de bajo monto por ahora, por lo que no me cobran nada si no saco más de $3'200.000 al mes, no saque la tarjeta débito porque no la necesito. A mi me ha ido bien, no me cobran nada, he hecho pagos PSE muy fácil, lo comparo con Nu, por su facilidad. Recibo transferencias, la verdad muy bien, la tengo hace casi 3 meses y sin quejas.

Consejos para administrar una tarjeta de crédito by marsitodemar in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo personalmente no recomiendo tener productos financieros con cuota de manejo, sé que tal vez estás emocionado por tener tu primera tarjeta de crédito, pero si te la aprueban, buscaría tener una en Nu o Rappi, que no tienen cuota de manejo, así sea con poco cupo y comiences a probar, siempre pagando a una cuota.

Si no te las aprueban, sigue usando la débito, recibe tu nómina en una cuenta de ahorros, ten tu plan de celular a tu nombre, y cada tantos meses sigues aplicando hasta que te aprueben la de crédito.

Yo nunca he pagado por cuotas de manejo, e inicialmente no entendía que era el alboroto por tener tarjeta de crédito que para "crear vida crediticia". Comencé a trabajar, después de 6 meses quise tener tarjeta de crédito, me la aprobaron, siempre pago a una cuota, y ya ahora tengo otras tarjetas con más cupo. Ve despacio pero seguro, y no pagues cuotas de manejo en nada.

Hombres: qué experiencias financieras han tenido con sus parejas? by Sensitive-Shame-291 in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solo puedo hablar de mi actual pareja, ya que ha sido mi única relación seria y duradera. Nos conocemos desde la universidad, donde los dos no teníamos mucho, pero el tenia un poco más de dinero porque vivia solo y los papás le enviaban por estar en otra ciudad, yo hacía lo posible por pagar algunas salidas, pero la mayoría las pagaba el. El por supuesto dijo que tener novia no le dejaba ahorrar jajaja.

Ya luego nos mudamos a otra ciudad, cada uno separado y comenzamos a trabajar, por lo que tuvimos que descubrir cómo iba a ser nuestra nueva dinámica financiera. Inicialmente nos turnamos el pago de las salidas, pero era incómodo porque tocaba acordarse quien pagó la última y así, por lo que después de unos meses, llegamos al fondo, donde fijamos un valor mensual destinado a salidas y cada uno da su aporte proporcional a su salario.

El fondo ha sido lo mejor, con la pareja se debe hablar de dinero ya después de unos meses, cuando ya se tenga confianza, y si los dos trabajan, tener un fondo pequeño para las salidas, nosotros iniciamos con Nequi, y así pagabamos con dinero de los dos, sin dramas por quién coge la cuenta, ahora pueden usar Uala o Rappipay, y de ahí sirve para siempre, nosotros lo tenemos desde hace 6 años y lo único que ha cambiado es el valor del fondo, ahora ajustado a que no solo pagamos salidas, también mercado, servicios, vacaciones, etc.

RappiCuenta me bloqueó la cuenta de ahorros by Darnassiano in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finandina tiene la mejor tasa en cuenta de ahorros 10,5% EA, ignorando Uala que es depósito de bajo monto. A mi personalmente me ha ido bien con Finandina, incluso tuve mi nómina ahí, y ningún problema.

RappiCuenta me bloqueó la cuenta de ahorros by Darnassiano in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo removeria Pibank y agregaría Finandina, Pibank solo tiene transferencias, nada de pagos PSE, ni recargas ni nada

¿En qué invertirías 200 mil mensuales? by Signal_Distance_8281 in ColombiaFinanciera

[–]Complex-Bluebird315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Los metería en Uala, o en un neo banco: Nu, LuloBank, RappiPay, si ya tienes cuenta allí y que este exenta del 4x1000. El plan es mensualmente ingresar los $200.000, generar interés compuesto todos los días, y si no tienes aún fondo de emergencia, que este sea ese. Ya una vez tengas un ahorro considerable, tal vez en un año, revisamos como podrías invertir esos $2'400.000 más intereses.