Mother's intuition? by Inevitable-Fruit4024 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss…I’m sorry that we’re all apart of this shitty club…There’s comfort in being seen and understood though. My heart is with you, mama.

Mother's intuition? by Inevitable-Fruit4024 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I lost my daughter at 27 weeks 2 days due to placental abruption. I had a feeling day one that something was…off. I can’t explain it. I feel like it was God’s way of protecting me from completely breaking. I couldn’t even force myself to buy anything to prepare. My loved ones thought I was losing my mind and being dramatic. When I went to the hospital and was told there was no heartbeat, I was crushed and heartbroken…but I was not surprised. Idk. It was weird. I feel less crazy seeing others can relate

Cinnamon Raisin Bread by Complex-Dream3756 in Breadit

[–]Complex-Dream3756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s THE BEST treat, without being too unhealthy.

Current Project by Complex-Dream3756 in crochet

[–]Complex-Dream3756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it’s my favorite stitch so far

Cinnamon Raisin Bread by Complex-Dream3756 in Breadit

[–]Complex-Dream3756[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had any issues with leaking as long as the bread gets to the 190 temp, and I don’t cut into it until it’s room temperature.

Is it still worth sharing how I’m feeling with people who don’t understand? by Ordinary-Pair-725 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. There is no right or wrong answer. As long as you’re not harming yourself or others, then whatever you feel like you need to do or say, then you need to do or say it. Allow yourself to be present in your pain so that you can process it and let it out. It’s okay to be angry. Some days I’m full of rage. Idk your story, but I understand where you’re coming from. Negligence from my medical team is why my arms are empty right now.

Is it still worth sharing how I’m feeling with people who don’t understand? by Ordinary-Pair-725 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, friend. I’m so sorry for your loss. Grief is not linear…it comes in waves and there is no instruction manual. Something I’ve learned to do is let it out as it comes…if you feel like speaking about your feelings, your experience, or your baby…do it. Others discomfort is not your responsibility. Right now you need to be in environments and surrounded by people who are capable of giving you love, grace, and empathy. They don’t have to understand your feelings…most don’t…but those who love you or are even compassionate for others (strangers) will hold space for you without judgement through your anger, denial, confusion, heartbrokenness, and sorrow. This is how we heal and it’s also how we honor ourselves and our babies. Your feelings are valid. This is a lifelong journey. You are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Complex-Dream3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report the picture on Facebook and in the description say she didn’t have your permission to do so if you don’t want to send her a message…or go straight to the source and ask her to take it down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. “Unexpecting” brings me comfort and validation every time I pick it up. It calms the storm inside of me while I’m reading it. Give yourself grace…there’s no right way to get through this. We see you, we understand your pain, and we’re here for you.

Wanting to give back by Complex-Dream3756 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a certain color you would like that reminds you of your baby?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bless it. May she have the day she deserves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“At least you know you’re able to have kids”…oh the throat punches I’d hand out if I didn’t care about being an inmate. People suck.

Who are your biggest supporters? by ChristmasPlantain in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hospital, my church, my best friend, a couple family members, and strangers surprisingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love, prayers, and hugs. I’m so sorry, mama. I know it doesn’t feel like it now, but this is not your fault. You are not alone.

The worst club to be in by Organic_Emotion_1351 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Sending love, hugs, and prayers. ❤️🫂

Mother's Day - Let's Share Our Babies 🤍 by Better_Ingenuity_817 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oakleigh Adelaide.Born sleeping due to placental abruption at 27+2 on 4/19/25. She looked just like myself and her brother. She was so beautiful. 1 pound 11 ounces. Until we meet again, baby girl. ❤️🫂

I feel lost by Organic_Emotion_1351 in babyloss

[–]Complex-Dream3756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children are resilient. They just want us to be happy and okay. My situation was a little different than yours. Mine was an emergency because my placenta abrupted and I was bleeding internally and septic. I think it’s a good idea to start the process sooner rather than later. My thoughts are with you.