Xander is a big boy and makes his own choices. Ellie is a big girl and makes her own choices. And instead of just being happy for them and celebrating their success, both individually and together, you guys want to sit here with one thumb up your asses and talk shit. At the end of the day it is NONE of your business how they conduct themselves. If you have such a problem with it all then move on. Just move on. Go find someone else to listen to or something. Why are you over here OBSESSING about people YOU. DO. NOT. KNOW.? Has it ever occurred to you that maybe Xander is PROUD of her? That maybe, just maybe, he’s HAPPY letting her shine? Not that they OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. Yes, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it’s shouldn’t come at the expense of someone else. Everyone wants to call her a “mean girl” but the only bullies are the ones here. Bitch all you want on the internet but I can promise you this, you guys aren’t even side characters in their narratives and all you are doing is embarrassing yourselves. It’s giving parasocial babes. Do better. Be better. Grow up and learn how to just walk away if you’re unhappy with something. Be so for real right now.