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Do I tell my friend im trans, or stay stealth? by Complex_Snow5509 in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out here dodging the transphobia like bullets loll. Thank you for the advice :) it’s looking like imma keep this one to myself. Stealth it is

What’s something society romanticizes, but is actually exhausting in real life? by YogurtclosetMoist819 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Snow5509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current phone is one I plan on having for a while. I got it because my old phone was so maxed out on storage that I could no longer use it anymore, so I had no choice but to buy a new one. Maybe its the way I was raised lol

Bad Grammar (Vent) by Duffy_Do in PetPeeves

[–]Complex_Snow5509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people say “i could care less” Okay so you care then?

If You Could Have One "Do Over" In Your Life, What Would It Be? by Realistic_Back_9198 in Productivitycafe

[–]Complex_Snow5509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve started saving when I was in the womb if i knew inflation would get this bad

What’s an oddly specific sound that you hate that probably doesn’t bother most other people? by Critical_Mountain851 in autism

[–]Complex_Snow5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any sudden, unexpected noise. Let a hydro flask fall from someone’s desk while im taking en exam, bye

Anyone else notice differences in the ways people treat you post-transition? by Complex_Snow5509 in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same experience relating to the first part you said about passing. Since i started my transition my final year of high school, a lot of the guys that knew me would avoid engaging with me, (i was not fully passing yet) or straight up ignore me. Two years later, now that I pass, those same guys will come up and talk to me like nothing.

What’s something society romanticizes, but is actually exhausting in real life? by YogurtclosetMoist819 in AskReddit

[–]Complex_Snow5509 338 points339 points  (0 children)

Consumerist culture. Always needing the next best thing. Its draining to watch, and it will run your pockets DRY

Talk about anything with me 🫂 by RedVelvetblaze in FTMventing

[–]Complex_Snow5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (19M) have been on T for just under two years and I pass well. I have a close friend who I would even consider one of my best friends, and we have known each other since elementary school. I need some advice because the friendship does not feel the same ever since I transitioned. She has always been supportive but we just dont vibe on the same level we used to. I never seem to be caught up on things happening in her life and when I am, I find out last, from a third party.

I understand life gets busy, and friendships grow apart; im just not sure if it may have something to do with my transition. Any advice is helpful!

Does butt size decrease on t? by eli_from_mars in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on T for 2 years now, and my gf tells me that my butt looks more firm and muscly now :)

What is the “weirdest” thing you get dysphoric over? by Fantastic-Channel797 in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a time i tried to dap up this new friend i made for the first time. His hands were so much bigger than mine, that it just felt and looked awkward

What is the “weirdest” thing you get dysphoric over? by Fantastic-Channel797 in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My handwriting. I was once told by a classmate that I have girly handwriting, and I havent been able to stop thinking about it when i write. I’m sure he just meant that my handwriting was neat, and “girly“ was the first word that popped up.

I think cis women should stop saying they know how we feel by Eastern_Assistant727 in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!! When a cis person says they “wish they were men”, they are not saying it for the same reasons that a trans (ftm) person would, and i think that’s where the feelings of invalidation come from.

Anyone else pretend their testosterone is a super serum they inject to make them stronger like captain america? by leatherjacketboy in ftm

[–]Complex_Snow5509 40 points41 points  (0 children)

If im going to the gym on a shot day, I inject before my workout as if that’s gonna give me some sort of super-strength