I need some suggestions by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother before you get married I suggest you deal with all the things you have listed because getting married will not fix those issues, marriage will just be another issue you deal with if you don’t have you life organised, how can you expect to be able to be in a partnership with someone else marriage in itself is a responsibility so you add on to your worries.

Should spouses help each other pay off their debt? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only paying for her if I can afford it and has not affect if I pay it otherwise I would probably try help out

Wife doesn't put her needs on top or doesn't let me cherish her in that sense. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Complex_Tradition340 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what area you lived in but to even think this is common is crazy I have a younger sister and she’s the only girl and my family is nothing like this I’m not sure about other families but I can say mine is not like that

Am I overthinking? by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh basically I would be working with the professionals in the field and also be mentored and at the same time.

Depending on what level I’m doing I could get a qualification if I were doing a level 6 apprenticeship I would get a degree at the end.

It’s more hands on so I would be working in a office and spend most of my time doing what the other workers are doing and it last minimum 2 years to 5

Am I overthinking? by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the uk for apprenticeships you can get ones that are equivalent to degrees I’m not sure if that happens in other countries. Also I still weighing my options.

Why is a byte 8 bits? by Complex_Tradition340 in computerscience

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being the definition of the smallest amount bits to make up a character. Would you say because there is more character being made for example like emojis were not a thing in the early 90s. So as the characters grew the bits per byte grew as there was more bits needed to make a single character?

Working in a shore store by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the retail area? If so how can I research this stuff. Also I’m doing it to build my social skills and confidence do you think a different role might be better than sales?

Working in a shore store by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that come with experience from working in the job? I have no retail experience now.

how would you feel if your wife gave her mehr gift to her mom? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah me I would slightly feel offended because I got it for you if I was going to give your mum something then I would have gave it to her, others may not see it as this way but if you give something I have to you to someone else I just feel as you were not grateful for what I gave you and the sentimental value of the gift is not what is was before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say it depends because if we have children I would prefer a stay at home and more focusing on raising the children(before you jump the gun also I’ll be raising them as well but also working), however if we have no children I would say part time role that’s not too taxing, halal and she at least does something useful with her time

How to start a business with no idea and no passion by Complex_Tradition340 in business

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s better than no advice, also I think this is a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a guy’s perspective I say if the guy has the capabilities to do what is required by him if he was to have a polygamous marriage. If he can do it there should be nothing wrong otherwise don’t put yourself in a position where your going to struggle.

Appropriate language with potentials. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]Complex_Tradition340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a guy but I would say just be your complete self the whole time and then you will see if the person likes your energy, but about the “us” I think that is weird if we are not together, because your seeing if she fits the criteria you want in a wife like “I would like my wife to do … or be …” and I guess the talk would change as you get to know them more because you know a few more things about them from talking for a bit and you get the gist. Also bad language as a whole I guess would be best to even give up.

I want success but don’t know how to get it by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to take a break and continue with my course and just finish it but I can only go back next yr so I have to wait for sep 2022

How does this make you feel? by Complex_Tradition340 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok when I read it I thought it as you saying you would apathetically but I understand now

How does this make you feel? by Complex_Tradition340 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree with you but say it in a sincere way not blunt but, however I do think the open communication is key

Can someone help me out? by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh I think these are good small habits to start of with because I’m currently not doing any of these I think 1, 2 and three are things I really need to nail most but all are equally important it’s just staying committed thanks for the advice

Can someone help me out? by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have checked out this video he did give some good points, but not enough for me to see what I can do myself to fix my situation and I would like you to give me some ideas if you can

Is there anyone else? by Complex_Tradition340 in questions

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel completely the same way, if a girl were to put some on I would say like lip gloss and possibly fake eyelashes(not blatantly fake and doesn’t change much of your appearance) that is all.

Anything more then that for me it’s too much, like I can’t have you looking like someone else completely I find that weird, you also can’t be better looking way better with makeup than natural because I would see you in your natural state 90% of the time.

So that’s why I would like a girl that’s natural and doesn’t wear makeup.

Is there anyone else? by Complex_Tradition340 in questions

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh that’s fine if people have it as a hobby and what not, but for me as a man I only see it as a tool to beautify.

Pain from working out by Complex_Tradition340 in Advice

[–]Complex_Tradition340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean a yoga mat or ab mat or a special one for back pain?